Stealing the Stolen Sex Meme

Another Sex Meme – One that has been stolen time and time again

I found this Sex meme @ Sunday Stealing (a site who’s purpose is to  steal and repost memes) They stole it from someone who stole it from someone etc… You get the Idea ->Now I’m stealing it (please feel free to steal it yourself – Just link back to this page!!)

1. Is there anyone of your friends that you would ever consider having sex with?

Absolutely, more than one in fact, and that’s without including twitter friends.

2. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night?

Can’t I have it Morning Noon AND Night? – I’d have to choose afternoon, I’m always horny in the afternoon around 2-4pm

3. What side of the bed do you sleep on?

Which Ever side I end up On

4. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?

Possibly, Not sure, but It’s kinda likely I have.

5. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath?

Yes to both

6. Do you watch/read pornography?

Yep,Yep, Yep & Yep see – sex via violet for the proof!

7. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?

Far prefer someone aggressive over passive, but honestly like us to both be on about the same level, neither person taking the passive or aggressive, but admit to having been rather passive with -B

8. Do you love someone on your blogroll?

Um, no I don’t think so. Id fuck some of the people on my blogroll, but Love is far too strong a word.

9. Would you choose love or money?

Love – Money can be re earned, it’s flow is continuous, but Love – True Love…Is Worth Dying For

10. Your top three favourite kinks in bed?

I like it hard, I like it rough, and I like being used like a whore.

11. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually?

Sadly More than Once

12. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex?

probably the beach

13. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?

hmm, thats a hard one, soccer fields, back alleys, lunch room, trucks, cars, and once in a moving vehicle.

14. Have you ever been caught having sex?

More than once!

15. Ever been to a bar just to get sex?

Met someone at a bar just to have sex with them – does that count?

16. Ever been picked up in a bar?

Yeah, few times. Which is odd for someone who became monogomous as a teenager

17. Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone of the same sex?

yes & yes

18. Had sex in a movie theater?

given hand jobs & blow jobs in a cinema, but never actually had sex

20. Had sex in a bathroom?

Well If I’ve had sex in a shower – it goes to say Ive done it in a bathroom.

21. Have you ever had sex at work?

Yes, multiple times, too many to count

22. Bought something from an adult store?

yes

23. Do you own any sex toys?

Umm, Yeah, a few!

24. Does anyone have naughty pics of you or are you on film?

Yes People have naughty Pics of me, I Once had sex and broadcast it on the net (Back in 1999 – it was a big deal back then.), I also had a heap of dirty pics on a disc that was stolen!  I was also filmed without my consent, without even any discussion – However I have an Image of him that is by far worse than me fucking him senseless – gotta love a waterbed Going Cowgirl Style.! And someone else has a video of me, not sure I’d call it sexual, but I trust that person not to abuse it.

25. Have you ever had sex with someone and called them the wrong name?

I don’t think so, but certainly have thought of someone else whilst with someone.

26. Do you think oral sex constitutes as a form of intercourse?

No, Intercourse is Intercourse, It Involves Penis In Vagina or Ass, mouths don’t count.

27. What’s your favorite sexual position?

Bent over, any form of  Doggy Style, but usually only come if I’m on top

28. What’s your favourite sex act?

At the moment Id have to say Anal, otherwise giving or receiving oral.

29. Have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time?

yes I have.

30. Ever Faked an Orgasm?

Who hasn’t??

So are you going to steal the Stolen Sex Meme from Me? Go On….I dare you to…Just link back to me or leave a comment so I can get my Voyeur on and check out your answers…

Violetxx

Wanton Wednesday #15

My Boobs

Managed to get my phone to co-operate with my laptop via bluetooth so that I can still take part in Wanton Wednesday despite my broken camera.

This photo makes my boobs look like they barely exist, but I’m just happy to have some form of camera working – even if the quality totally sucks!

Want to Join the Wanton Fun? Just Visit Wanton Wednesdays, grab your Camera & take part. I promise you’ll have fun!

Violet xx

p.s. I’ll get back to my regular sexual debauchery once I get this huge mess with money & X all sorted out. I may even have a new FWB to talk about soon, he’s sweet, nice and is full of life – so what I need. Plus great taste in Music – but he lives 2or 3 hours away, not sure if I want another long distance FWB, but have a feeling he’ll be happy to visit me

Sex Toy Alphabet

My Artistic Creation

A Pretty Self Explanatory Art Project – I took Sex Toys and cut them up, changing them and forming  them into the letters of the alphabet using Photoshop – yes I get bored easily.

Stupidly I forgot to label all the images so lost a few of the toy names, but Once I finish my detective work I’ll add the list of toys used. In the mean time If you want to know what a particular toy is just ask, there’s only a few I don’t have names for.

Violet xx

Wanton Wednesday #14

In Honour of My Nan

Strange to dedicate something like Wanton Wednesday To My Nan… but it is what it is. She passed away from Breast Cancer in 2008, yesterday would’ve been her 83rd birthday. But she is Always with me as two years ago today I got this done…

Do me a Favour and visit the breast cancer site, just by clicking the button on their site you help to fund Mammograms and do your bit in the fight against Breast Cancer.

www.theBreastCancerSite.com

Thanks Guys, & don’t forget you too can take Part In Wanton Wednesday! Not only is it fun, but it’ also brings so many more people to your site – Sex Blogging WIN!!

Violet xx

Help for the hopeless

This is totally crazy, whacked out & just out of the realms of normal…even for me, but I’m stuck deep & need to find someway out – somehow – and I’m going to extremes by actually praying. It worked once before, hopefully it works this time for this truly hopeless situation.

St Jude – For disasters that need miracles to overcome them!

May the sacred heart of Jesus be adored,glorified,loved,and preserved throughout the whole world now, and forever.

Sacred heart of Jesus,pray for us,

St.Jude worker of miracles, pray for us.

St.Jude help for the hopeless,pray for us.
Say this prayer nine times a day, for nine days. By the eight day your
prayer will be answered. It has never been known to fail.
Publish this prayer,after you have finished saying it.

Here Endeth my relationship with organised religion again.

I promise to bring back your usual programming – once I get this stupid beaurecratic BS sorted out

Violet xx

Win Yourself Some Toys

Sharing the Sex Toy Give Away Love

After my Great and Brilliant Luck with winning 2 Sex Toy & Adult Product Give Aways both in the same week I’m kinda hooked, but also want to share the give away love with you all.

In Order of Closing Date:

Essinem is giving away a lovely ‘Fancy Me kit’ from the folks at Good Vibrations – Hurry though as it ends soon, at at 11:59 PM PST on July 20th 2010. Visit her Give Away page to enter

The guys at Good Vibrations really are spreading the Sex Toy Love at this moment with another Two Give Aways. Why? Because It’s their Birthday, Grab yourself a bargain whilst they’re celebrating. I love when shops give great Discounts to celebrate their own birthdays!

One of The Other Great Good Vibrations Give Aways are being run by Annette Funny Jello –

And that’s Not All the Good Vibes Give Away Goodness

More Sex Toys & Adult Product Give Aways

Get a bit of Kink on with Kinky World’s Give Away

The sexy @Mistress_Kay of Kinky-World.net Fame & Fantasticness is giving away a cool set of Door Jam Cuffs from Babeland.com worth $32. To Enter just comment on her Give Away Page and tell her your first or favourite Kinky Experience – Mine was having sex backstage at aFoo Fighters Concert – sadly it wasn’t with the hotness monster himself – Mr Dave Grohl, but still it was fun.

You can also get extra entries in this Give Away by following both @Mistress_Kay & @Babeland_Toys on Twitter & by re-tweeting the Give Away once a day – get over to her Give Away Page to find out more and enter – Closes July 29th Noon Central time.

Nipple Charms.com Twitter Contest

NippleCharms.com are running a twitter contest – It’s very simple and straight forward, re-tweet their July Sales Discount Codes, sharing their great non-piercing body jewellery with your followers and you could earn yourself some of their Great Jewellery. Check out their Twitter Contest Page for more info. Contest Closes July 31st 2010

I’ve always wanted to get my nipple pierced, but honestly the thought of sticking a needle through my far too sensitive nipple has never really appealed to me – But the look without the pain, and the possible complications (I just can’t see how putting a hole through the end of your nipple Wouldn’t damage some of the ducts that milk flows through during breast feeding – I could be wrong, but it bothers me) of putting a hole in my nipple is a huge WIN. I’m especially in love with Janet Jackson style Sun Shaped Nipple Embracer -> Check em out here – too cool.

Celebrate True Pleasures 3rd Birthday Give Away

What better way to celebrate 3 years of hot & sexy blogging than by giving away a bunch of hot & sexy toys & other Products?

That’s exactly what True Pleasure’s is doing to celebrate her blogs 3rd Anniversary, With 5 different Prizes up for grabs. Including my Favourite Sex Toy in the world – the We Vibe2.

The Prizes up for grabs are:

★A Pair of Stringed Pearl Panties¹ from NippleCharms.com

★ My Favourite Sex Toy – the We Vibe2 is up for grabs, supplied by the rocking cool people from Babeland.com - Seriously this toy has truly Rocked my world continuously for the past 3 months – now you have a chance to get one free!!

★Good Vibrations really are being Super Generous with the Give Aways lately, and have given True Pleasures a Plum colored G-Ki G Spot Vibrator to give away to one lucky guy or girl. – I’d love to get my hands on one of these!!

★There’s a Lelo Intima Silk Blind Fold up for grabs courtesy of the folks over at Vibrator.com

And Finally, there’s the Prize I’m after….

★Being given away by my Favourite Sex Toy Shop – Adult Sex Toys.com Is the Super Sleek & Sexy Mistress Dildo from Vixen Creations

There’s something for Everyone in this Give Away so head on over to True Pleasure’s 3rd Anniversary Give Away & enter to win your favourite prize. The winners will chosen at random & announced on Twitter August 2, 2010 @ 11:00 am CST

1. I HATE that word, knickers, undies, draws etc are all fine, but panties just feels so…prissy & something an old pervert like my grandfather would say! [↩]

Stark Ranting Mad

Depression Traps you, takes hold of you and sucks the life out of you. I cannot imagine anyone would ever want to be affected by depression, but sadly it’s indiscriminating. You don’t get to choose whether or not to be controlled by depression, it decides if it will rule you.

Obviously you can be pro-active, you can enroll in various forms of therapy, you can take medications to help control the levels of the chemicals in your brain, yet no matter how badly you want or need to overcome depression, it is not the kind of thing that you can fully control. You can do your best to manage it, but if you suffer from depression it’s doubtful you will ever fully control it.

You cannot heal an infection through thought alone so why do people think you can overcome depression by thinking positively. It’s like telling someone with clouded vision they can see properly if they focussed correctly. Positive thought can help to overcome depression, but when you are stuck in the deepest hole of emotions where everything positive is crushed, it’s kind of next to impossible.

I’m talking from my own experiences, and they may vary greatly from that of another person with depression.

What pisses me off is when people that don’t know what it feels like to suffer from depression tell me to just get over it, If you just went and did x,y & z you wouldn’t be depressed. Even worse is when someone tries to motivate me to do something by putting me down – a tactic X seems to believe in.

He wanted me to get up, get dressed, have a shower, go shopping, come back and cook him dinner. Instead of nicely asking, he got abusive, at one point telling me how unwanted I am, how I really should do my kid a favor & kill myself, as well as lecturing me on my absolute selfishness and that I don’t deserve to be respected. I had pointed out that a) I had no money & b) because I had no money I couldn’t pay the $450 fine (which was for driving with the rear number plate missing, in a car that he drove daily, a number plate he failed to put back on the car when it fell off, a car that he forced me to drive because he took mine knowing that I had to take our son to see his parents that night!  – yes Im responsible for driving the car that day, but I do strongly believe he has partial responsibility for the fine!) that had caused my licence to get cancelled. Fuck he pissed me off. He’s fucking broken me. He now owns me, until I can find out a way to boost my income by 500% to be able to cover my share of the rent, he fucking owns me & he knows it. I swear it must get him hard.

If I didn’t already have depression, the situation alone would make me want to cut my wrists.

Needless to say after the degrading barrage of abuse I did exactly as he asked. I took him card and bought food, rebelling by basically stealing money from him so I could survive for the week, Fuck I want to scream.

I used to run away to -B’s place whenever X got to me. I miss being able to go hang out with him. Which only depresses me more.

I feel trapped, physically & emotionally, by both the current events in my life as well as by the depression that has dogged me for the past 18 years. I want out, I want out so badly, but it’s so dark I can’t see to find my way out.

I’m not big enough for anyone to start writing blog posts to attack me, but to the fuckwit doing all the victim bashing within this blogging genre – fuck you… walk a day in her shoes, or mine… and see how quickly you are crippled.

Sorry for the unintelligent rambling rant, I’m angry, in pain, can’t stop crying and can’t see my way out right now.

Violet xx

P.S. I refuse to link to the bitch that’s been ranting and commenting without invitation regarding the life & experiences of Britni – but shes the chick behind viewfromthefloor

Cock A Doodle Doo

Strange Sex Facts All About The Penis

Dicks come in all shapes and sizes… well maybe not all shapes! Some are longer than others, some have greater girth, some bend up, others bend downwards, and some even divert off and point to one side. Some wear turtle-necks others wear army helmets. Just like their owners, each penis is an individual with no two being exactly the same.

Growing versus Showing

According to Men’s Health Magazine, 79% of men are growers and the remaining 21% are showers. That is the majority of men gain both a noticeable amount or girth and length when they get an erection, whilst the rest just stand to attention without much visible growth in size. What I’d like to know is what percentage of men who fall into both categories? In the teeny tiny proportion of the male population whom I’ve had the pleasure to get acquainted with I have come across one penis that was both an impressive shower and a remarkable grower. So If I’ve come across 1, surely at least 1% can be both???

Smoking Decreases More than Just Your Life Span;

Getting an erection is all about blood flowing to the cock to enlarge and engorge its flesh. Smoking constricts veins restricting blood flow, therefore working against the creation of and the ability to maintain an erection. The negative effects of smoking on your circulation can cause you guys to loose up to 1cm in length! Quitting smoking is also the number one tip to improving sexual function (however I honestly doubt that 1 extra cm would make much difference!)

It takes Two

The average amount of blood it takes to engorge said penile tissue to create an erection is 2 Tablespoons! Whilst the average amount of semen per ejaculation is 1-2 teaspoons.

You can go from Cut to Uncut

Most guys get no say as to whether or not they are circumcised, so those of you who aren’t happy that your folks decided to give you the snip as a baby may be happy to know it is possible to have your foreskin reconstructed. I doubt it would be a pleasurable undertaking,

however it is possible. It takes time to stretch existing tissue to re-create the foreskin, but with special rings, weights and other devices it is actually possible to go from circumcised back to the way you were born.

According to the world health organisation only 30% of the world’s male population over the age of 15 are circumcised

Chuck it Out

The word ‘ejaculation’ comes from a Latin word meaning ‘throwing out’

Another upside to being Gay

Not only do Gay men get to avoid dealing with bitchy wives and ex-girlfriends, on average their dicks are ⅓” longer than their straight counterparts.

Be glad you’re not a Bee

When a male bee gets Lucky enough to get it on with the queen bee their genitals actually explode. They snap off in the Queen’s genital tract, ensuring no other male can fertilise her little bee eggs.

Truly D.I.Y.

One in 400 guys are lucky enough to be flexible and limber enough to be able to give themselves blow jobs! – However in my own personal experience the guys that are scared to taste their own cum wish they could blow themselves, where as those who know how they taste and aren’t in anyway opposed to going down on their female partners post coitus dislike the notion of sucking their own dicks! Just my own personal observations.

Detachable Penis

A lot of guys may wish they had detachable dicks so they could give themselves head (If they aren’t the 1 in 400 lucky ones above!!), King Missile even wrote a song about a man loosing his detachable penis. What may be dreamed of by some species is fact for the Argonaut – a species of Octopus that has a form of a detachable penis. The male Argonaut produces a ball of spermatozoa in a special tentacle called a hectocotylus and upon meeting an attractive female his penis will detach and swim off on its own to inseminate the female.

What we can do they can do

According to a poll taken on an online dating site 48% of the male respondents admitted they had faked an orgasm at some point in their life.

Size Does Matter

But not in the way you’re thinking it does. It has been proven that the sperm ejaculated by men who are at the larger end of the size scale are stronger swimmers compared to the men at the smaller end. It’s also been shown that better looking men have stronger swimmers as well. So good looking guys with big dicks would appear to have the most potent sperm.

Finally to put those of you who stress out about how important size is – only 4% of women are critical of a man’s size. Women are far more concerned with your facial expressions and the noises your making than the size of your dick, and even then we are often more concerned about our performance and your enjoyment than the other way around In my opinion I’m more interested in the person connected to the penis than the size of it. If a guy has a huge dick but is a total dick, I’m going to be fucking his smaller mate who’s a decent guy.

that’s all for now

Violetxx

WTMFI Wednesdays #23 Sex & Music

⚤Sex & Music ♫

Sex & Music are possibly my two Favourite Things in Life. When they combine – It’s bliss.

This Weeks Questions

1. How often do you listen to music during sex? Do you wish you did it more often?
2. What are 5 songs that you love to have sex to? Why?
3. Have you ever given or received a lap dance from a professional? What about from a non-professional? Which did you prefer or which do you think you would prefer?
4. Do you find when you listen to music while you have sex, that sex generally tends to follow the rhythm of the music? Do you use that advantageously?
5. Does having music on make you feel more sexy?

My Answers

1. How often do you listen to music during sex? Do you wish you did it more often?

Barely ever, Life is so much better when it has a sound track. Same thing goes for my sex life. Sadly I’ve wasted so much time fucking someone who couldn’t give a shit what I like, so no music whilst fucking. I wish music was playing constantly – and as it’s never playing when I’m having sex I sure as hell wish it was playing more often.. even just on the odd occasion would be nice!

2. What are 5 songs that you love to have sex to? Why?

Who doesn’t want to have sex to Closer by Nine Inch Nails?

I’ve also always felt Israel’s Son by Silverchair has that perfect hip rocking girl on top style bass line – it’s hard to just choose 5!!

All My Life by the Foo Fighters – just cause it shows you just how dirty his mind is (you tube won’t let me embed the original – bastards!)

East Jesus No Where by Green Day- that opening riff – & the drum line

And I have to round out my top 5 with the song that makes me want to fuck the most – ‘No one Knows‘ by Queens of the Stone Age – featuring none other than Dave Grohl on drums (surely you get the theme running through this list

And ‘If loving you is wrong’ by faithless – well who doesn’t want to either get naked or fuck after listening to that. There’s Probably a hundred more I could list… I think its the bass line that gets me!

3. Have you ever given or received a lap dance from a professional? What about from a non-professional? Which did you prefer or which do you think you would prefer?

No , never even been to a strip club let alone had a lap dance & never had an amateur one either. I’ve seen a lot of strippers are parties and such giving lap dances & more, but even that was way too long ago.

4. Do you find when you listen to music while you have sex, that sex generally tends to follow the rhythm of the music? Do you use that advantageously?

Yes, yes & more YES. I suck at keeping a good rhythm going over an extended period of time, so music is definitely a plus if I’m in control of such things. Just one of the many reasons I’ve always wanted to fuck a musician

5. Does having music on make you feel more sexy?

Music – full stop turns me on as a whole, so hell yeah – Music definitely makes me feel sexier than silence.

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WTMFI Wednesday #22 All About Anal

Anal Explorations

“That’s Tight”

This Week’s Questions

1. What are your thoughts on anal sex? Have you ever had it?
2. Do you enjoy watching porn with anal sex?
3. If you’ve had anal sex, what was your first time like? If you haven’t had anal sex and want to, what do you hope for your anal sex experience?
4. Do you own any sex toys for anal penetration? If not, do you want to?
5. Do you always use condoms or do you sometimes allow bareback?

BONUS QUESTION:
What are your thoughts on society’s negative views of anal sex?

1.What are your thoughts on anal sex? Have you ever had it?

I’m pretty open So my thoughts on Anal… Well I’m certainly open to it, but it’s certainly something that it up to the individual. I’d written it off for years & years before I decided to give it another go.

I’ve only ever had Anal with One partner, but there was over a decade between the first period of time I when  was having Anal with him and the second time we tried, and since then I’ve lost count of the number of times we’ve done it. But the first time round it was rather painful to start with, probably because I was young, naive and doubt there was any lube involved. Second time round it’s all been intensely pleasurable because I knew exactly what I was doing & understood how it all worked thanks to Alexa and her blog the realprincessdiaries.com.

EDIT: turns out that Alexa isn’t real, or that she was just the persona of a creept perv who was eventually caught for pretending to be this yound 20-something, lesbian, high class escort, sexual studies doctorate student. So she’s crap but the information that was on her site was influential and pretty factual, but now gone since the author was caught out!

Education & understanding how my body works as well as what’s going on when you have Anal made it so much easier. I look back on my initial foray into anal & think ‘how naive’ Would you go about giving birth without understanding the physical process? Anal’s so much easier & therefore fun if you know whats going on.

For more on the what, Where And How to’s of Anal check Out these three great Posts from the Aforementioned Alexa. Start out With Preparing for your first Anal; If I had of read this all those years ago before I even tried having Anal sex I doubt there would’ve been any pain, discomfort or worry of any kind. Wether you are male or female I recommend you read it, even if it is only so that you have a better understanding of how it all works. Guys if you like the idea  of having Anal sex with a woman I suggest you bookmark it, It’s helped at least one of my mates to venture into previously uncharted territory.

Enema’s and More on Anal Sex is like the secondary level of your Anal education from Alexa

Even now, re-reading it after turning into a total butt slut, there’s much to learn on the subject and knowledge is power. What better power to have than sexual power, so even if you’ve been fucking your ass off for years you still just might learn something.These two are the Main Anal articles on her site, but there are plenty more Anal Sex Posts on her blog - If you want to try out Anal read as much as you can both on her site and others.

2.Do you enjoy watching porn with anal sex?

Yeah, I honestly do. But I enjoy anal immensely and I watch a lot of Double Penetration Porn, I guess because it’s number 1 on my Sexual Bucket List.

But it’s Also Anal Porn that bothers me the most. It is simply not safe to do ATM or Ass To Mouth, I hate that it makes it seem in anyway acceptable and that it gives some the impression that they can request to stick their dick in your mouth after it’s come out of your ass. Same goes with Vaginal sex after Anal. There’s all kinds of bacteria up your ass, stuff you really don’t want in your Vag, I can only imagine the kinds of infections that could lead to. If you want to do Anal then stick it in another hole, wrap that dick in a condom for fuck’s sake.

3. If you’ve had anal sex, what was your first time like? If you haven’t had anal sex and want to, what do you hope for your anal sex experience?

The very, very first time I had Anal was about 15 years ago when I was 16. I must admit it was painful and only slightly pleasurable. I was doing it because he wanted to. The thought of needing, let alone using lube never crossed my mind, If we had used lube I doubt it would’ve been painful. If I knew than what I know know in regards to Anal sex I’m sure it would’ve been a hit & there wouldn’t have been a decade & a half between Anal Adventures.

I was scared to try it after my son was born, sadly haemorrhoids often develop during pregnancy as well as during the pushing part of the birthing experience. I got off pretty lightly in that department, but still it was an issue in my mind (I’ve found my mind is sometimes my worst enemy when it comes to sexual pleasure)

I also suffer from Endometriosis, a condition where the lining of the uterus (the Endometrium) decides to take up residence in places it really shouldn’t. My case is on the extreme end with it gluing all my pelvic organs together and deciding to migrate to both my lungs and the inside of my rectum and bowel. Don’t ask me how the heck it gets in such places, I just know it’s there and it causes me all sorts of issues. I was really worried about tearing things that might be stuck together, but some logical thought made me realise if something can come out without tearing anything, surely something could go back in.

So with Education, Information, Awareness of my own body & the all important lube, second time round Anal has been nothing but an absolute joy.

4. Do you own any sex toys for anal penetration? If not, do you want to?

I do, I have a stunning crystal Delights Plug I scored out of my sister, and also really enjoy my Glass Wand for Anal Play. When it comes to Anal Play with sex toys the toy MUST have some sort of flared base to ensure that it doesn’t slip inside – which would lead you to an embarrassing trip to the hospital to have it removed. Similar warning regarding Large toys and Anal Play. Unlike the Vagina the Rectum Doesn’t really stretch. You can gradually stretch what feels comfortable being inserted, but it isn’t going to stretch in length. Respect that fact, and the fact that pain means something is not right and you shouldn’t have any problems.

5. Do you always use condoms or do you sometimes allow bareback?

In no way do I recommend or condone having un-safe sex, especially un-safe Anal sex as there is a higher risk of contracting an STD such as HIV via Anal sex than Vaginal Sex. However most often My Anal Adventures have all been bareback – but also with the same monogamous partner I was with for 15 years. If ever I were to have Anal, or any form of penetrative sex with someone else there would most certainly be a condom involved.

Second time round we were using condoms for Anal until I was comfortable with it (they seemed to cause less friction & discomfort on entry), but that soon ended. It’s also important to use condoms with sex toys used for Anal Play unless they are able to be fully disinfected and sterilised like glass.

Bonus Question:

What are your thoughts on society’s negative views of anal sex?

I don’t really give it much consideration to be truly honest.But maybe the fact that the vast majority see it as being so taboo that makes it even more alluring and of course fun.

If you Want more Info On Anal Other Articles that may be of interest or assistance include:

New To Anal Sex - on the Frisky Blog – This article on Anal includes important information regarding the two different sphincter muscles and how they work. Kind of important to Understand so you don’t go hurting yourself by trying to go to fast, or trying to insert anything too big.

Anal sex from the library @ Rotten.com

And as much as it pains me to link to this site, they do have a rather good guide to Anal Sex Toys and Anal Play from the site that has become known for being the sex shop you can’t trust

Unless you are thinking about some full on Anal play I wouldn’t recommend you read this Article, but if you are looking to push your Anal Boundaries, this post could save you from serious damage & in extreme cases death. Sometimes Anal Play can go too far