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Jul
16

Pleasurists #86

By Screaming Violet // Pleasurists // No Comments

Pleasurists #86

squishes and smushes by GoddessWillendorf

Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.

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On to the reviews…

Vibrators

Fairy Pocket Mini by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
Mystic Wand by Mystress Lady Evyl
Mystic Wand by Hamilton Hexx
LELO Gigi by Marilyn
Butterfly Kiss by buzzvibe
The Bon Bon by Jessie Beth
Little Thumper by buzzvibe
Ophoria Bliss No. 7 by VanillaKinks
SinFive Nagi by Rayne
Fun Factory Ellove by Elodie
Iconic Smoothie by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
Pirates Vibrator by jonsbabydoll
Sqweel by Saraid
Vibrating Dilator Set by Missy
Le Reve Bullet by Tonia
Fun Factory Laya Spot by Elodie
Touche Little Snooper by Femenina Deliciosa
Desire by Mistress Arabella
Remote Control Vibrating Egg by Screaming Violet
Je Joue SaSi by Epiphora

Dildos

Anal Toys

Toys for Cocks

LELO Tor by Splendwhore

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

Intimate Organics Gels & Sprays by Marilyn
Dr. Love by Jessie Beth
Pink Unity by buzzvibe
Jimmyjane Beyond Euphoric Massage Lotion by Jessie Beth
System JO H2O Anal Warming by Missy
Sliquid Sassy Booty Formula by True Pleasures
Astroglide Silken Secret by Joanna Cake
Hot Pink by Miss Vixen
Lust Dust Edible Body Powder by Jessie Beth

BDSM/Fetish

Adult Books/Games

Adult DVDs & Porn

Storage

For Your Numphomation XL Flogger Case by Rayne

Miscellaneous

Jul
16

My blog, My Body, My Camera, My Life

By Screaming Violet // Superfluous Crap // No Comments

Since I began this blog I’ve been having so much fun. I’ve been exploring parts of myself I never really knew existed and have been doing so in ways I never would’ve. Originally my intention was to show others that not all women are porn hating prudes, Soon I discovered I really didn’t need to prove that point, as there are so many hot and horny female bloggers… I felt the point I wanted to make was already being made.

Since my blogs conception I had planned to review my latest sex toy purchase, the We Vibe2 f , but never could’ve imagined anyone would send you free toys to review. My current arrangement with AdultSexToys.com came after I entered a give away they were running. Soon I will be finished with my first batch of reviews and will be running my first Give Away, Celebrating the launch of AdultSexToys.com new website,

Becoming affiliated with any company wasn’t something I had planned on, I wanted to blog merely for the love of it, but If I’m talking all about sex toys, it’s reasonable to assume someone may wish to buy sex toys I’m discussing. And as it doesn’t cost the customer anything why not become an affiliate and get a cut from the company rather than sending them customers for free? Being an affiliate allowed me to move my blog to it’s own domain where I could dress it up in any theme I wanted to and host whatever content I wanted to in whatever way I want to… Im not too cool with conforming to rules lol.

Most importantly I started this blog to express myself, discuss what was at the time my two kinda complex sexual relationships and planned on continuing to do so, along with a mixture of weird sex facts, Porn Pics and clips, and well whatever else I found to blog about related to sex. Just like Stienbeck wrote “the dreams of mice and men often go awry” and now I’ve both lost my fwb – now simply known as -B and am not really intending to speak to X let alone fuck him anytime soon – you’ll realise why shortly.

I loved that I found WTMFI Wednesdays, I love memes, and am the queen of the over share, so it really has been an easy way to share more of my sexual self without having to work out how to structure the posts myself. It’s kind of like formspring, but organised! So many questions, so many answers. Bing, Bang, Boom, an easy post to write that truly shares my sexual self with my readers.

Then I found Wanton Wednesdays, Sapio Slut’s Scavenger Hunt & Half Nekkid Thursday. Years ago I’d made sex tapes and brought the camera into my sex life, but these three sites gave me a real excuse to both push my boundaries and become more confidant within my own skin. I never realised just what a rush it would be to flash my tits at the camera whilst out in Public. It made me feel re-born. The First time there wasn’t anyone around, but the 2^nd time was at a really busy truck stop right beside the petrol pump. It was such an overwhelming sensation of freedom. On my way home I was planning just how I could pull off taking photos at some of the other places on the scavenger hunt list.

I was very hesitant to post the pictures, I’ve never much liked the skin I exist within. I even went so far as to publish a self deprecating rant before posting the pictures because I am not happy with my body and am kind of ashamed of it. But the response of my readers and twitter friends was so supportive and encouraging that I felt like a whole new door was opening for me. I was really starting to accept myself.

My first Wanton Wednesday was just my leg in my favourite striped sock, I had planned a much much hotter, much more artistic shot, but X sucked as a photographer. Yet that didn’t matter, the response I got on my site and on twitter… yet again was fantastic.

I didn’t make it to half Nekkid Thursday, a huge bomb got dropped on my life. One that still could possibly cause even further damage. I was issued a fine for over $104,000.00 – Why? Very Basically because I share a roof one night a week with my ex partner and a Government Bureaucrat decided that means he should be financially responsible for me. I had always been upfront and 100% honest with Centrelink (Australian agency responsible for all kinds of Government Benefits) before I even moved in with this person….Which is X (He may seem or it may come across as though he was my husband, I’ve probably even called him my ex husband – because that’s what I’m used to calling him & I feel expresses the true relationship easily & succinctly.) Yes I do live with him, even if it’s one day a week, Yes I do sleep with him… but that’s none of their fucking business! And yes we share a child. So what’s the difference? He is not my husband, we are not in any kind of committed relationship other than that of parenting our son, and most importantly he isn’t, nor has he even been financially responsible for me. If it weren’t for 4 weeks that we lived together as a couple way back when I was 16 this issue wouldn’t exist.

I told X of the situation when he got home for the night on Saturday. He didn’t take it too lightly. Which I do understand. He has basically been told that he’s financially responsible for me, and therefore responsible for the $104k. A rather large, rather violent fight eventuated from this.

Why am I telling you about all of this?

Because my amazing Camera, the one that was helping to really pull me out of my shell got broken. I managed to save my laptop, but the camera was a casualty of the war.

As much as the experiences with the camera lifted me up, the sadness and depression of loosing it buries me. Stupid huh? Depressed over a camera. But it’s more than the camera, it’s that way of expressing myself and freeing myself that I’m grieving for.

Sorry for the rambling, rant like post, but I’m seriously bummed by this. I wish I could run away and hide with -B. Damn him for falling in Love. I need him to fuck my pain away.

I’ll overcome the loss of the camera, I’ll start re composing myself. I guess I’m also sad I no longer have someone to take my sexual frustrations out on, on top of the feeling that the sexual/ spiritual journey I was on has hit a roadblock with loosing X and the camera. Fuck my life’s pathetic at the moment,

Hopefully I’ll get back to the happy fun me I was when I began my blog and hopefully Ill sort this fine BS out. I don’t really want to keep living with X, but I don’t want to break my kids family up. Hard decisions lie ahead… Beware this ride may become bumpy… and not in a fun sexy way.

But I hope you’ll be seeing more of me soon

Violet xx

Jul
14

Wanton Wednesday #13

By Screaming Violet // Wanton Wednesdays // 11 Comments

Wanton Wednesday

Over the weekend I had a load of drama’s with X – dumb bastard… Sadly my camera (amongst other things) became a casualty of that war. So no brand new pics…but….

I’ve already admitted to loving stripey socks, but I wouldn’t class it a true fetish, where as this is definitely a fetish for me, whether the ink is permanent on not, writing on skin just does it for me. I don’t know the technical name of said fetish, but it does exist. This much I know is true.

wanton wednesday 14 leg graffiti

And then I got all artsy with it.

And then I got a bit creative

Why don’t you come join the Wanton Wednesday Fun, or just Visit Wanton Wednesday to see all of the other participant’s pics… Hopefully next week my photo won’t still be all about my legs.

Violet xx

p.s. it says “I Declare that my Love is True”

Jul
12

Review: Remote Control Vibrating Egg

By Screaming Violet // sex toy Reviews, sex toys // 2 Comments

Remote Control Vibrating Egg

My first foray into the world of remote controlled Sex Toys was ok…whilst it lasted.

The Important Info

Created by Doc Johnson, this 7 function remote control egg arrives in a rather cheap plastic display style box that isn’t really suitable for storage between use. Included with the Egg are the 6 watch style cell batteries it requires and 1 12V N1 sized battery for the remote control. I’ve got the pretty pink ‘Fuchsia‘ coloured egg, but there is also a Blue Version Available.

The Egg is approx 6 cm long, 3 cm wide & close to 11 cm girth at its widest point.( 2.5″ x 1.25″) The remote control is quite small at 7 cm long x 3 cm wide x 1.5 cm deep. Both have plastic coated loops, on the Egg the loop is approx 8 cmm long and is there for safe and easy removal after use, the remote’s loop also has a small clip hook at the end so you, or your partner can attach it to your clothing, key ring or…well whatever you wish to attach it to.

The Egg is made of a velvety textured,phthalate free & body safe TPR (thermo plastic Elastomer). TPR is slightly porous and can’t be fully sterilised but it is Safe to use both silicone & water based lubes with it. The Top 2/3rd s of the egg unscrews from the base to allow you to change the batteries, but there is no seal, making this sex toy only splash-proof rather than water proof, so avoid submerging this adult toy or you may just fry it.

Simply clean with a cloth and warm soapy water or use your favourite toy cleaner.

Using the Remote Control Vibrating Egg

The egg is designed to be ‘worn’ internally whilst you, or your partner controls it’s vibrations via the small, discreet remote control. It can be used solo or as a couple and can be both a tool for pleasure or for intensifying your Kegel excersizes Whilst I was a little scared of the small size of the 24K gold plated Ben Wa Balls I recently reviewed, I am totally at easy with the size of this egg and reassured as it does have that all important string-like loop for easy removal.

There’s 4 different vibration levels & 3 varied patterns of vibration, none of which I found to be that intense, but then again I’m into really intense vibrations. Just because it didn’t suit me Doesn’t mean it won’t suit you. As it is an egg the Vibrations are pretty evenly distributed, but I found them to be just slightly stronger in the base of the egg where the motor is housed.

Although designed to be used or worn internally the eggs vibrations can be very enjoyable for clitoral and other external stimulation. I haven’t ever tried using it with any other sex toy, but found the greatest enjoyment from it vibrating away inside my vagina during anal sex. It was far better being used in this way than any other insertable vibrator I own as it just went about its business leaving my hands, as well as his free to do other things. (It was even better than wearing my beloved We Vibe2 during Anal)

I have to say I’ve always been very excited about the prospect of remote control style sex toys, but the reality really was a let down. Many of my dirty ‘playing with sex toys whilst doing the shopping‘ fantasies are now dismantled. Sadly the remote only worked as I had hoped when it was in my hands, less than 3 feet from the toy, any further and both distance and I’m guessing human flesh diminished the strength of the remote signal. So I guess I should rescind my wish for a we vibe 3 with remote control functions unless they can produce one that is powerful enough to be used at a distance of more than a few feet and can send a signal through the flesh to where the toy is being used, or worn as the case may be.

This remote signal failure isn’t a fatal flaw as it prevents the toys vibration speed and pattern from being changed, it doesn’t stop the toy from working if the remote is out of range. So set it to the speed you like before you enter the supermarket rather than after you grab your trolley.

Finally, Although it has a great sturdy loop for easy removal I still wouldn’t go using this egg for Anal Play. When dealing with pussy there’s only so far a toy can run (as kindly pointed out by both Adriana from ofsexandlove.com & Cherry from The Cherry Scoop on my previous review of the 24K gold plated Ben Wa Balls), but when dealing with your ass, there’s a whole myriad of places a toy could migrate to – so stick to toys with flared bases for Anal play – don’t go becoming an Urban Legend style story.

I can’t love all sex toys I review, this is one I like, but can’t say I love. The remote issue and the slightly weak for my tastes vibration strength leave me giving this Egg a 2.5 out of 5 even though I loved it for other reasons. It may be great for beginners and those who don’t wantt intense vibrations, just because I’m not in love with it doesn’t mean others won’t be.

Final Note: I failed sex toy care 101 with this sex toy. Between playing with it about a month ago and now returning to finalise my review I failed to remove the batteries – something I always do with ALL battery powered toys – and the battery in the remote have died, rendering my egg lifeless

If the egg had some way of being switched on without the remote I would be a much happier girl.

This Remote Control Vibrating Egg is currently on sale for $48.30¹ and is also available in Blue if you prefer

This sex toy review sponsored by Adult Sex Toys : over 8,000 sex toys and adult toys to choose from. I received this Sex Toy for free in order to review it, In the spirit of full disclosure and transparency I’d Also like to let you know I’m an affiliate of Adult Sex Toys & earn a % of all sales made via links on my site. So Support Me & go Fuck Yourself! lol

Violet xx

As always my fellow Aussie’s If you are looking for a vibrating Egg that comes with a wireless remote control Femplay.com.au have a range of Remotely Controlled Vibrating Eggs Available, all of which are currently on sale, but I can’t give you any recommendations as I haven’t tried any of them out.. well not yet anyway.

Price is correct at time of original publishing but may change [↩]

Jul
12

My Sexual Bucket List

By Screaming Violet // my sexual exploits, Superfluous Crap // 7 Comments

The Sexual Things I must do before I die

I saw a list on someone’s blog of 12 sexual experiences they wanted to have before they died. With a browsing history as long, vast and colourful as mine I’m not surprised that I can’t find the blog again. However I do know what’s on my personal ‘Sexual Bucket List’. A list of sexual acts &/or experiences I want to have, experience or explore before I die. I started out with 12 Things, but my bucket list stretched to 15 16, it may even grow in the future, but for now this is my List:

#1 Is to have a MFM threesome.I’ve taken part in a few different FMF threesomes, all of which were years & years ago, but all incredibly fun & pleasurable. I’ve even done the FFF style threesome, I just haven’t had the opportunity to participate in the MFM version of a threesome.

X Loves the idea, It’s his #1 turn on, I’m just not sure if he could cope with the jealousy that could possibly brew in the aftermath. (I don’t know If I want anything to do with him after the bullshit tantrum he threw on the weekend that ended up in a fistfight, let alone wanting to fuck him again though.) But if ever I do change my opinion of him, I’ve found the 2^nd M for the mix… or at least I think I have, not 100% sure he was serious. It’s hard to know whether or not to believe a man when he’s thinking with his dick rather than his brain – but if & when I do organise it, you will be the first to know.

I also want to experience double penetration, it’s my true number one not yet experienced fantasy, but as it requires a MFM threesome for it to eventuate it gets thrown in with MFM at #1.

#2 It’s a little Vanilla, but I want to have sex in water. I’m a Pisces and have always been at one with water, I just haven’t gotten around to having sex in the water yet. I’ve done it on beaches (North Cronulla – like in Puberty Blues) and Even the Sandhills (where Mad Max was filmed) I Just never made it to the water. I’ve heard all the awful stories of getting sand where you don’t want it, but am happy to settle for still water like a swimming pool, or a lake.

#3 Despite having slept with more than a few females I’ve never had the experience of using a double ended dildo, allowing both female partners to be penetrated by the other simultaneously. I love Pussy and could spend a year, licking, tasting, eating pussy, touching it, playing with it… – I Love all things pussy! Grinding against each other, clit to clit, scissors style feels great, Id love to feel that mixed with the sensation of penetration. I’m sure it has to be the ultimate feeling when it comes to girl on girl fucking – maybe someone slightly more experience can tell me if I’m wasting my lesbian dreams on an unsatisfying act or not.

#4 Is to give someone their un-realised fantasy. A little like a sexual fantasy Genie. Everyone has fantasies, most of us have at least one un-conventional one, one that our partner or partners have no interest in. Before I die I’d like to help make someone’s unrealised fantasy a reality. I imagine someone who’s had this deep seeded longing for years and years, one that has always been denied. For some reason when I think of this one I envision a married man despite the fact I’ve sworn never ever to fuck with another man whose married¹. Guys a bit like the UnWanted Husband, one who’s been used, maybe abused and just ignored sexually, those who if they are married the ‘cheating’ damage has already been well and truly done – I’d like to give at least one person their deepest, dirtiest denied desire. Just as long as my actions couldn’t lead to breaking up a family. I think I could even get some kind of BDSM kink on for this one despite my general dislike of such, If it got the person in question off I’d be glad to do pretty much whatever – just no two girls one cup shit!

#5 Another is to get paid for sex, or rather have sex for money as I think the two can differ at times. As a teenager I always wanted to be a prostitute, I guess it was some kind of romantic notion caused by pretty woman((I also wanted to be a nun after watching ‘Brides of Christ’ and longed to marry Marky Mark – long before he dumped the funky bunch and became a hot movie star.. I have strange notions at times!)) and although I was propositioned once or twice, I never slept with anyone or performed any sexual act explicitly for money. But I pretty much gave it away for free to any guy who gave it a try. The reason I didn’t take the offering of $$$ when propositioned was because the guys made me want to puke,I really disliked the idea of not being able to choose who I fucked so I never became a professional teenage whore. I did accept $100 off of X for a blow job, but don’t think he really counts. But with this $105k debt looming over me, I may get to cross number 5 off my list sooner than I had expected

#6 I’d like to Be a Cam Girl. I would probably prefer to try being a cam girl before I turned to out & out prostitution. I’ve been a phone sex operator before and think that becoming a cam girl is the natural next step from there. I’ve had sex whilst people watched via web cam, so don’t think it would be a big deal to me once I got my head in the right place. My personal self-esteem and body Image both suck, something I’m working hard to improve via things such as writing this blog and participating in things like The Scavenger Hunt & Wanton Wednesdays, being a Cam girl would be a HUGE step towards my goal of loving myself & my body. If & when I do decide to go in that direction – again I’ll be sure to let you know.

#7 I want to either make another woman squirt, or teach a guy how to make me do it, so he can go on to teach another woman It has to be more fun with a partner than it is on my own and it could be teamed up with my #12 and kill two birds with one stone.

#8 Have someone eat or lick gooey food stuffs off of my skin &/or do the same to someone else. I know it isn’t really out there, but again I’ve never tried it. Same with Sex on the Kitchen bench. I’ve wanted to have Kitchen Bench sex since I was way to young to be thinking about it. The closest I ever came was with my childhood sweetheart, but for some reason we never actually had sex despite the fact neither of us were virgins…We still don’t know why we never fucked! I do have this one very particular fantasy regarding -B & my Kitchen bench, but seriously doubt that will ever eventuate.

#9 Sell my Underwear Online. I hate the word ‘panties’ or any derivative there of, but after being with someone with such a fetish It truly rubbed off on me, anyone who’s seen my tumblr feed at sexviaviolet.tumblr.com can attest to this. Considering I’m down to my last $50 this is quite likely to eventuate… if anyone wants them

#10 Have anonymous, or close to anonymous sex with someone, by that I mean no blind date style anonymous sex – But within hours of first meeting someone, I’d just like one more good, no real names, one night stand before I die…please

#11 To get really drunk and fuck like I have no Inhibitions preferably with someone other than X or -B.

Although I don’t really have any inhibitions when I’m with X, there’s so many things he’s picky about that make being truly free sexually impossible, i.e.: having to have a shower before we have sex, even if I’ve just showered, and even then he has a huge issue with going down on me, I forget the last time he did. No doggy style sex because he can’t stand the sight off my ass hole – Because My ass hole is one of those darkly pigmented ones he deems it too dirty to look at… But he’s happy to stick his dick in that ass and couldn’t care less if he pulled it out covered in shit (I know this because I asked him about it on the weekend.

Writing this makes me realise just how much he has stifled the true me.

And although I said it has to be someone other than -B, I’d love to be that way with him, he kinda deserves it after all the shit he’s put up with from me.

#12 Very very unrealistic, but I’d love to participate in some form of ‘glory hole’ style kinkiness, but I’d much prefer to be bent over and fucked than be on my knee’s giving bj’s..but I did say it was unrealistic, possibly impossible, but fuck it, it’s my list.

#13 It’s my dirtiest darkest item on my list… To live out my own one truly ruley dirty fantasy, or dirty sexual act rather. I’ve always wanted to pee in a guys mouth – don’t know quite why, maybe because I hate X and the idea of being able to be dominant and kind of abusive to him turns me on. That’s my usual go to fantasy when I need that extra push in order to cum. I imagine standing up whilst he’s on his knees, my hand tightly mingled in his hair whilst he goes down on me and I get to kind of forcibly fuck his face. Eventually pulling his head away from my pussy and peeing all over him. I’d equally like to squirt in a guys mouth, so either or, not too fussed, but I’d like to do one of those before I die. I’ve played all kinds of ‘Water Sports’ with him, both giving and receiving…Just never in his mouth²

#14 Finally…because I forgot about it two more recent sex toy items, I want to try the club vibe from ohmibod out during a Mosh Pit and fuck someone with the feel doe or similar non harness style strap on cock (is it still a strap on cock if it doesn’t actually ‘strap on’?) be it guy or girl I’d really like to try that thing out. I wonder if it feels as good as it looks, or if it is as hard to use as I’ve read. I’ve got plenty of other sex toy hopes & dreams, but there’s so many they require their own bucket List. I may even write that list today, I’m very bored and incredibly lazy today.

#15 And to finish… the most ridiculous of all. I’ve always wanted to have sex in a mosh pit, no matter how ridiculous, impossible & painful it could possibly be. Music turns me on, the higher the volume the wetter I get. I’ve had backstage sex, but never crowd side. I’m happy to die without fulfilling #15, but it’s a fantasy & deserves to be here no matter how impossible it would be in practice.

But wait I forgot one… #16 I’ve always wanted to fuck using a great sex swing. Even at my thinnest most anorexic self I wasn’t exactly light as a feather, I’d love a great sex swing so I could get into all kinds of weird and wonderful positions. A regular swing was plenty fun, I imagine a sex swing would be infinitely better, I even have the perfect basement for it – & trust me In Australia Basements are incredibly rare.. It’s really just a big area attached to the side of the garage- but the big Metal beams that are all painted a shiny deep red make it feel perfect for a sexual dungeon.

So what about you?

Do you have a Sexual Bucket List? Any Sexual experiences you want to have before you die? Any act you wish to do before you leave this life?

If you do, publish your List and leave a comment with the link to it . It doesn’t have to be 16 things, or even 12, It can be as many as you like… It’s your list. If you do & you link it back to here I’ll get off my lazy ass and make a cute little sexual bucket list button for you to use (I’m just being very very Lazy today)

The Voyeur in me would love to know what’s on your list.

Violet xx

engaged or somehow otherwise invested in a long term relationship, especially if children are involved [↩]
Stupid picky bastard – sorry I’ve really got my hate on for him today [↩]

Jul
10

Golden Ben Wa Balls

By Screaming Violet // Balls and Beads, Reviews, Sex Toys // 7 Comments

24K Gold Coated Ben Wa Balls

If you aren’t familiar with what Ben Wa Balls are you can take a look at this wikipedia article to find out more, but basically they are a tool for helping to strengthen your PC or pelvic floor muscles during your Kegel exercises as well as possibly giving you all kinds of pleasurable feelings as they wriggle and kiggle around inside your vagina whenever you wear¹ them. Women used to wear them and sit in their rocking chairs causing them to really ‘Wriggle & Jiggle’ – They sure could make the morning train commute more fun for some!

So onto Reviewing this particular Pair of Golden Ben Wa Balls I’ve been sent to review from AdultSexToys.com

They arrived in a simple basic plastic packaging, the style of packaging designed to hang under a shelf. The 2 golden Balls come with a really nice black velvet storage pouch.

The Balls them selves are quite small at around 1.7cm wide² the same size as an Australian 5cent piece and they have some weight about them, but I have no way to weigh them – bugger.

They are both solid & Identical, made from Chromium Steel coated with 24K Gold plating. The manufacturers claim that this 24k gold plating won’t chip crack or peel, I’ve dropped them, played marbles with them and done all I can to try to prove them wrong…but I can’t, they really don’t chip, crack or peel. They are also non porous and can be boiled to sterilise them without damaging the coating.

But...and this is a pretty huge BUT that’s where the positives end. Just like ‘Cockzilla‘ the teeny Tiny size of these Ben Wa Balls made me a little scared.

size of the golden ben wa balls compared to a 5 cent piece

Pair of Golden Ben Wa Balls Compared to a 5cent Piece

Other Ben Wa Ball style sex toys usually have a string or other design feature that keeps the balls attached to one another along with a string or other device that enables safe & easy removal. This pair of balls have neither. So they can possibly both go off in opposite directions with minds of their own rather than staying put, and they can decide to be difficult when you remove them, but as long as you only put them in your Vag they won’t migrate elsewhere – But if you have recently had a baby wait until you have had your post-natal check up and know your cervix has closed again, as if your cervix is open they could possibly migrate and cause you harm.

I have tried using them, but that trial didn’t last long. Each time I tightened my PC muscles I could feel my muscles pulling the balls slightly deeper. I got scared about just how deep they were going, realising they may try to turn into squatters and refuse to leave despite my wish to evict them. Admittedly I tend to panic easily though,

The first one was friendly and left without protest, but it’s friend was hoping to set up camp. I couldn’t push it out, it wasn’t moved by Gravity, and wouldn’t dislodge when I tried jumping up and down to get it out of there. Eventually my finger had to go fishing to find it and personally evict the squatter!

I swear getting my kid to leave the premises was less stress inducing than getting ball #2 to leave.

I own my Vagina and although it loves to have visitors it really doesn’t cope to well with those who try to move in, especially when they fail to pay the rent! No matter the size of the guest or the room they visit, if there isn’t a simple and easy way to remove them after their stay I choose to refuse them entry.

NEVER Ever consider using this set – or any other for Anal play, It simply is not safe, no matter what you read.

But – there’s yet another big But … they do make nice fancy marbles! – I do like to try and find some kind of positive in everything.

I can’t wait to try out the Fun Factory’s Smart Balls, they are pretty, they are quite a bit larger, they are attached to each other & come with the all important string for removal! They are #1 on my want to Review List.

EDIT July 11th 2010

My Much more Experienced and therefore Wiser Sex Toy Reviewing Comrades have pointed out in the comments below My great worry for your safety was greatly Un-Justified. Unlike your butt, your Vagina is nott a never ending tube, nothing can get lost never to appear again. So Some of the things I had said are now gone & I apologise for being so very harsh on these balls. My review has been edited somewhat, however the danger to post-partum women is very real, but considering my kid is 13 My personal fears were pretty much un founded.

I gave them a second chance last night, eviction was much easier, but still I would like them to be a little bigger and at least attached to each other, that way if I can reach the first one the second must follow.

Again though I am a woman who has given birth, although vagina’s are ingenious in there ability to bounce back to their original post baby size, the topography of mine changed greatly after giving birth. After further contemplation it is possibly the problem with removing ball #2 was as much my Vag’s fault as the balls. I’m sorry I was so mean to you little ball #2

This set of 24k Gold plated Ben Wa Balls are available for only $8.77³ from AdultSexToys.com

Violet xx

My Australian Readers can find a variety Ben Wa Balls available at Femplay.com.au, I haven’t yet found an Australian supplier of this product, but if I do I’ll let you know

by wear I mean walking around doing your daily activities with the ben wa balls inserted within your vagina [↩]
sorry I couldn’t find a way to accurately measure their circumference [↩]
Price correct at time of original publication [↩]

Jul
8

Scavenger Hunt – Truck & Petrol Pump

By Screaming Violet // Memes, my sexual exploits, Superfluous Crap // 3 Comments

I Flashed My Boobs

I mentioned Sapio Slut’s Scavenger hunt in my last Weekend Reading post and ever since I first discovered it I’ve really wanted to take part. I don’t have the body to flaunt like Sapio Slut Does, nor do I have the Sexy Self Esteem Of Curvaceous Dee, but I still managed to flash my boobs in public places… Twice!

First time was In front of X’s Truck Last Sunday Night – I live no where near a train line & even if I did I’d never get on one. I’ve been phobic of trains since my brother got killed by one when I was 8 – So Road Train Will Just have to do.

Truck, Train What's the big difference? don't answer that

The Truck

And I guess I can’t put it off much longer…

my tits in front of the truck

Then On Tuesday Night I went And met him out at the truck Stop on the highway and was in the position to flash my boobs at the Petrol Pump.I wasn’t scared to ‘flash’ at the world, there were only a few truck drivers around, and a camera that fed into the service station, but I didn’t care because I didn’t need to go in there. Once he had finished filling up we were moving to the other end of the truck stop to fuck.

Then I offered to climb up and clean his windows for him, hoping to get the perfect shot of my ass for my Wanton Wednesday Post. Once I climbed up the side of the open Bonnet He passed me the squidgey Window washing thing and I started washing the drivers side of the windscreen whilst telling him to get the right photo (I had my skirt hiked up so my ass was half on show.

“You have to..Ughhhh” he says and puts the camera down, climbs up shaking his head at me & pulls the windscreen wiper away from the windscreen.

I finished and half climbed down, half fell down and he went to put the bonnet back up.

“Crunch” & I get the ‘what the fuck have you done now Violet’ look.

He Put the Friggen Windscreen Wiper down, he should’ve put it back. It got snapped and I got sent in to buy electrical tape from the servo. Inside were five truckers all talking to the guy behind the counter, all of whom were standing around the monitor that caught me flashing my boobs. I could’ve died. I’m a whore on the inside. but so shy on the outside!

Anyways here’s the pic from the petrol pump.

at the petrol pump

I think that I should now qualify for some scavenger hunt award love…even if I didn’t get it all off – It’s Winter here in Australia you know.

So Now that I’ve struck up the courage to both take the photos AND publish them – How about you join in the Scavenger hunt fun too?

Violetxx

Jul
8

Self Depricating Rant

By Screaming Violet // Superfluous Crap // 5 Comments

I just wanted to post this before I try and get the nerve up to post the Images I’ve taken for Sapio Slut’s Scavenger Hunt. I’m not posting it looking for re-assurance or attention or anything like that. More because I want people to understand why I’m doing what I’m doing and taking part despite having major self image issues. So here’s what I wrote last Sunday after taking my first scavenger hunt Photo.

Normally I’m shy & ashamed of myself. Something I’m trying to discard, I’m working on letting go and fully wholly embracing my self, my sexuality and my Inner Whore.

Although in my sexual relationship with X I always (& still do to some extent) feel like I’ve always been un-inhibited
and able to fully exoress myself sexually, the same sexual relationship, & the emotional one too has left me scarred.
Society & its pressures have also taken their toll on my self image & self esteem, which was an issue well before I was overweight. I rarely feel good about myself either as a person or physically, that’s why I try to hide behind a wall of shyness.A Wall that needs to get torn down, so that I can eventually show off the person I’m rebuilding behind that wall. I’m all about sexual positivity and people being able to express themselves, their sexuality and their kinks proudly, yet I fail to express myself in such a way, I lock myself away, try and hide it deep within, but bit by bit Im doing what I can to unfurl myself and let myself be free.

It started with -B. OMG poor -B. The first night I spent with him, I swear I was shaking with fear. X was the first guy
I actually let go with sexually. I was hot, full of confidence and ready to let go of the sexual hang ups Id already managed
to collect by the time I was 16.Now I’m 31 and ready to let go of the hang ups I have procured in those past 15 yrs!

I want to be able to give myself over to -B 100%, let him have all of me sexually. It’s his fault I started on my journey to
discrobe the shyness and the shame that have built up over the years. And honestly, I wouldn’t be here without him, either emotionally, or physically writing this blog. He was and still is my catalyst. The truth be told, there’s no better man to put a broken woman back together. Don’t get me wrong, he’s not perfect, and can be a little shit at times , and together we’ve had some speed humps, even some mountains – silent mountains, but I do love and adore him. He’s just….
Well he’s my -B:P and although we could never actually be together, I love the friendship I have with him. I don’t want to
be his girlfriend, I love him to much to be with him like that. Part of me would break if I couldn’t have him in my life. So
I’m only too happy to stand back & be his friend, benefits or not. I just hope that in time I can help him as much as he’s helped me. I hope he will learn to trust me & finally, truly know that I am there for him, that he can trust me, and know that I do understand him, sometimes even better than he knows himself.

Of course I’d love to be able to fuck him again, shit I’d love to be able to fuck the guy three times a day for the rest of my life! But, honestly, seeing him happy is slightly more satisfying…. just lol.Anyway that enough -B praising for now he might get a swollen head!

So Very long story cut short, In my efforts to shed the cloak of shyness and insecurity and continue travelling my path
to being sexually free I went and got my tits out, on a freezing cold Winter’s Night To take part in Half Nekkid Thursday,
Sapio Slut’s Scavenger hunt & perhaps Wanton Wednesdays. All of which I see as being another tool to help me let go!

So with all of that said I guess it’s time for me to post the photos I took. I just hope It doesn’t cause the impression of me to change…but if I loose readers because you don’t like how I look, or you can’t stand fat chicks, or even if you disagree with what Im doing. I’m not doing it for anyone but me – so you won’t be missed. Those who stay and continue to read and talk and love me, I will simply love you more…can you tell Im scared

Violetxx

Jul
8

WTMFI Wednesdays Week #21

By Screaming Violet // Memes, Superfluous Crap // 2 Comments

All About My Feet

It’s taken me a whole week to get around to finishing this round of WTMFI Wednesdays, all because I wanted to be able to add my own photos to it – plus I’m Lazy.

“Have You Ever…”

This Week’s Questions

Have you ever sucked on another person’s toes? Have you ever had your toes sucked on? Which did you prefer? If you haven’t, would you like to?
Have you ever worshipped another person’s feet or had your feet worshipped? If you haven’t, what do you think about it?
Have you ever been made to lick a person’s shoe or boot, or made someone lick your shoe or boot? If you haven’t, would you?
Have you ever spent hours looking at pictures of feet, most likely on the internet?
Have you ever gotten or given a foot job?

BONUS QUESTION:
Have you ever taken pictures of your feet and made them visible to the public? Where could we find these pictures?

My Answers

1.Have you ever sucked on another person’s toes? Have you ever had your toes sucked on? Which did you prefer? If you haven’t, would you like to?

my feet are open to being worshipped

I’ve never had the opportunity to suck on someone’s toes, at least not that I can recall. X has an absolute aversion to feet (amongst many other things). Thus I’ve never had my toes sucked on, but I certainly wouldn’t say no if someone wished to do so.

2. Have you ever worshipped another person’s feet or had your feet worshipped? If you haven’t, what do you think about it?

I’ve never worshipped someone else’s feet, nor had mine worshipped. I once had an encounter that included an amazing foot rub whilst my foot rubbed against his dick under the table whilst we were having after dinner drinks with friends. I’ll never forget it. What do I think of foot worship? Not much, haven’t really considered it much before, I certainly wouldn’t complain if someone wanted to worship mine.

3.Have you ever been made to lick a person’s shoe or boot, or made someone lick your shoe or boot? If you haven’t, would you?

No & No. I am however incredibly open when it comes to people’s sexual kinks, so If I was with someone who would get off on it I’d be a more than willing participant, submissive or dominant – I’d be happy to do whatever they enjoyed most.

4.Have you ever spent hours looking at pictures of feet, most likely on the internet?

No I never really have, although I have spent the past week trying to take photos of my feet that I like and then an hour or so today editing them, but that’s about it for me & images of feet. If you were asking about women’s Underwear or ‘Panties’ (fuck I hate that word) it would be a completely different story. Those who follow me on twitter would know, I’m constantly posting pics of ‘panties’ in my sex via violet tumblr stream & t weeting them. I often waste hours & hours on tumblr looking at them & re-blogging them. Another fetish I ‘picked up’ off a previous sexual partner.

5.Have you ever gotten or given a foot job?

I’ve both given & received, but never to the point of orgasm.

And Once a guy wanted me to kind of squash his nuts with my foot whilst he went down on me…which I of course obliged.

BONUS QUESTION:

Have you ever taken pictures of your feet and made them visible to the public? Where could we find these pictures?

Last week my Answer Would’ve been no, but obviously this week the Answer is Yes. Obviously you can view them here!! – but if you have a thing for feet just comment and Ill gladly send you the 20+ Images of my feet that didn’t make it into this post, and if you’re really nice I’d be more than willing to take more.

So that’s it for my feet, but what are feet if they are without shoes? I have a very very special pair of Shoes, a pair of Doc’s. What’s so special about them? Well I’ve got a size 10 (Australian) feet so it’s often hard to find cool shoes that fit, let alone in an op shop. I scored this super rare pair of marbled cherry red & black Doctor Marten’s for just $8 at salvo’s in Caringbah. They Rock my world and I love them to death. I’ll probably get buried in them… So here they are.

Violet xx

Jul
8

Wanton Wednesday #13

By Screaming Violet // Wanton Wednesdays // 9 Comments

After talking about Wanton Wednesday in my last weekend reading post I’ve really been looking forward to this post. I had the Perfect Image in my head. Like most of my creative and artistic visions it didn’t quite pan out how I wanted it to. I blame X and his dodgy photography skills.

I wanted a hot shot of the side of my ass climbing into X’s truck – but he fucked it up… So you get my other favourite part of my body…My leg, adorned in my favourite stripey sock. Not X-Rated, rather G rated in fact, but I love it – Hopefully that’s all that counts to qualify for Wanton Wednesday.

I was taking pictures of my feet and legs for last weeks WTMFI Wednesdays Post and got inspired by a photo I took last year. I really have a ‘thing’ for both stockings and stripes and considering it’s almost my favourite part of my body – I love this photo – so If I have somehow #FAILED in my first Wanton Wednesday I promise I’ll do better next week. (can you see how much self esteem and belief I ooze!! seriously need to work on that fail too.) My leg in it's stripey sock

And may I also present the view from my womb… if you were inside me this would be your view

I think I shall be spending the weekend giving X photography lessons so I can get the shot I want of my ass! Then I’ll feel confident that my Wanton Wednesday Images do pass the bar.

Violetxx