A cool but cheeky breeze

Pulling the fabric back, exposing her entire breast to the sunlight he takes her nipple into his mouth, delicately traversing its topography with the tip of his tounge. She runs her hands down his back, tilting her neck to allow her kisses to meet his neck. Kisses which turn into playful bites as blows on her wet nipple, the cool breeze causing her bite down as the sensation buzzes throughout her body. He looks up at her with a cheeky smile, she laughs , half covering her face with her had. Acting demure despite wishing his mouth was playing several inches further south.

This is a part of 100 words of Smut September hosted by OurSex Secrets.com. Each day in September there is a single word to prompt you to write 100 sexy words.

To read my posts in order visit my initial 100 words of smut post

To Catch a Sexual Predator

I/dc]t’s quite rare for me to blog about or comment on current affairs, politics or news. I never watch the news, rarely listen to it and only read the paper when I’m bored, and even then I take so long to get around to writing about something that I usually forget or the topic has grown old. Last week though there was an article in the paper that made me as proud as it did sad, on a topic close to my heart, that goes to illustrate in a way point I’ve often preached about in my life.

In the UK a teenage girl was raped and last week her attacker was sent to jail because she kept her head about her to not only survive the attack but to also ensure her attacker could be prosecuted after the event. Her clever actions have helped to put this serial rapist behind bars where he belongs. News Article

After being grabbed off the streets by the man and forced into his car she took some knowledge learned from tv’s crime shows and put it to good use; pulling out a few strands of hair and stuffing them down behind the seat into a spot that would likely be missed when he cleaned the car, and making sure to leave her DNA & thus further evidence to be used against him by spitting on the seat to leave her DNA rich saliva invisibly behind. Once she was freed she also created a map of where he had taken her, a map that became key in finding her attacker – he had taken her to a disused army barracks near to where he had served whilst he was in the army.

It turns out that perhaps he had seen the same shows as he made his victims clean themselves after the attack with baby wipes, in an attempt to remove evidence. However that spit stayed on that car seat and those concealed hairs remained concealed until recovered by the police.  At the time she figured there would be an investigation and wanted to do whatever she could to assist it.

The guy, a 30 yr old soldier had attacked numerous other girls prior to this and has been called a ‘clever and cunning predator’, taking many of his victims unaware, often right near their homes in places one would consider “safe” and then force them into his car at knife-point.

Since I was a teenager I’ve loved one NIRVANA song more than all the rest because of the message that it conveys. The song ‘Rape Me‘, which is often misconstrued as a pro-rape song but rather it is in fact the absolute opposite. If it were a tale that had a moral it would basically be – If you are going to rape me there’s not much I can do about it and it’s certainly not my fault, but if you are going to do it, I’ll damn well do what I can to make sure you pay.

The girls attacked by this guy weren’t doing anything wrong, when he grabbed them their lives were at risk and he couldv’e killed them for not complying with his demands. Trying to fight him or stab him with his own knife would likely have cost them their lives, angering him could have earned her a knife in the throat. And whilst I’m certain this particular victim didn’t just  grin and bear it,  she used a level head to ensure that she  took action and fought back in a way which she could safely do to ensure he paid for what he did whilst also protecting her life.

If someone chooses you as their rape victim there isn’t much you can do to prevent it, there might be something you can do to stop it depending on the situation, but there is certainly something you can do to make sure your attacker can be caught and punished.

A piece of their hair, a scraping of their skin under your nails, their bodily fluid on your clothing, yours on theirs. It only takes a small amount of blood, saliva, semen or vaginal secretions to leave behind the unique DNA that can be traced back to the event and the parties involved.  A few hairs tucked behind a seat or a little saliva left to dry on fabric that’s associated with the attacker.

The details are also important and helpful, create a mnemonic to help you recall a number plate ((like FHD = Fuck Hes Dumb), scratch it in the dirt, write it on glass with your finger (even better with a wet finger), or type it into your phone if you can. Try and remember every details you can and try to leave as much evidence as you can. It is also important to not shower, no matter how strong your desire to do so is and quickly get yourself to a hospital so that any injuries can be taken care of and further evidence can be gathered to help catch your attacker.

Sadly there will still be times when nothing a victim does can save their lives, but if ever you find yourself in a situation such as this do everything you can in order to aid an investigation. And remember that if someone chooses you as their rape victim there isn’t much you can do to prevent it… but your actions may prevent them from being able to do it again.

If you have been sexually assaulted or raped you can contact one of these services in your area:

Australia: You can contact the NSW Rape Crisis Centre’s 24hr hot-line: 1800 424 017 (no matter which state you are in, they can direct you to local services)

US:  24hr National Sexual Assault Hot-line 1-800-656-HOPE which is run by RAIIN who also have an online hotline available

UK: Rape Crisis England and Wales 24hr hot-line: 0808 802 9999

Many more are available in other areas which you can find on google.

Violet xx

Blue

He manages to tuck his index finger in between her smooth skin and the blue bikini top in order to gently pull it to the side. Just barely exposing her nipple. It was so hard to the touch, her skin so supple and soft in contrast. Slowly circling her nipple, tracing its outline.She bites down on her lip, letting out a whispered, hushed tone of pleasure as she tosses her hair back arching her body into his hand. Taking erotic delight from each delicate moment, she realises just how wet she has become, despite not yet touching the water.

This is a part of 100 words of Smut September hosted by OurSex Secrets.com. Each day in September there is a single word to prompt you to write 100 sexy words. To read my posts in order visit my initial 100 words of smut post

Hectic

There’s just so much going on in my life at the moment that I’m starting to struggle and I’m scared that that if I struggle too much I’ll get worn out and drown. Ok so my metaphors suck, but hopefully you get the picture.

But then again, when I actually think about it I am drowning in sex toys that are patiently waiting to be used and reviewed. I try to keep the box containing my queue in sight so that I can play with them and write little notes and get to work on reviews as soon as I get a little inspiration, but recently one box turned into a  big box and one gigantic box thanks to Nexus – who sent me almost their entire line!!! (and that’s not including the hundreds of toys I’ve purchased from Eden Fantasys with points and gift cards that I want to review.) I’m almost scared to count how many are in my queue, but its going to take a while to get them all done. I might just have to start giving away the ones I’ve bought and haven’t had a chance to use!!

Oh wait – theres also some incredibly sexy erotica Cleis Press sent me. I’m currently devouring Sweet Danger with abandon and am loving exploring some fantasys I’d never considered as well as some I’d felt were to taboo to think of let alone contemplate! It’s very dirty indeed!

Then there’s the big blog feature I’ve been wanting to do for next month, but haven’t had much time to recruit bloggers for. So just a quick shout out to my readers, whether you are bloggers or not. If you are game enough to write something about ‘Feminine Hygiene’ I want to hear from you. Whether it’s about having your period, putting up with a bitchy partner with PMS, to the ridiculous ads for tampons, or just about any other angle you can come up with that’s related to that time of the month.

It is a subject that every woman¹ has dealt with, but rarely do we discuss. Even as sex bloggers who regularly discuss our vagina’s we don’t necessarily discuss what they naturally do, rather we stick to what we do to them. I’ve got some giveaways organised, as well as some reviews to post of different products, and some groovy graphics but now I’m just looking for people who might be interested in participating, I’m also happy to publish things on my blog if you don’t have one, or don’t feel comfortable posting to your blog. You can comment here or email me at violet@screaming-violet.com

There’s also my 100 words of smut posts that have fallen by the wayside (no real surprise there) but I want to be committed to it. I want to be committed to being a better writer and trying to write everyday. I really enjoyed writing the pieces I posted and have a couple close to ready to post, but just haven’t gotten there as yet.

Away from my blog I am also still drowning. I’ve got less than a week left before the hearing about my ridiculously huge govt debt and still a million things to get done.  I have a thousand phone calls to make, a hundred things to organise and to be honest I feel completely let down by my “real life” friends as barely any of them have stepped up to help me out with character references etc. It actually really hurts as it’s the kind of thing I’m always happy to help out with.

Hmm what else… Oh that’s right, Cosmo has come calling again. Believe it or not, they want me to write something for one of their upcoming issues and it will be a paid gig! I don’t know whether to freak out or faint. I’m just guessing she hasn’t read my blog and seen my writing. Like my last cosmo contribution tis one will be amongst great company as some of my favourite local sex bloggers will also be included… but you’ll have to wait to find out who!!

Its got to be a sexy, saucy sex confession. You know the kind of thing you like to read whilst sitting on the beach during summer. I just have to be careful which sexual sin I care to confess as I don’t want to go getting into too much trouble, or go hurting people I know and love. I also want to be able to share it with those I’m close to and you guys as well so I’ll have to do some thinking. Maybe a bit of reading of some of the great titles Cleis Press have just sent me to review for a little literary inspiration.

Other than that there’s been the numerous hospital stays, erupting ovarian cysts and a very scary ovarian cancer scare. A flatemate who’s being an ass, an arrest and subsequent court appearance for smashing said flatmate – with a sex toy no less (can you guess which one??). It all got thrwn out, but only after the poor constable had to turn beet red when he had to say the word dildo in court. There was a project I’d poured my heart into that dissapeared from under me which literally broke my heart…

Oh and the birth of my absolutely gourgeous niece whom I knew was coming into the world months before she was conceived – damn crystal ball never has anything like lotto numbers, or things that I need to knoow. She would be my nan’s first biological grand-daughter and the first girl of my generation after 5 boys.

Yep – it’s pretty bloody hectic round here of late!

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Getting Friskier

Their lips entwined, he struggles to not let his nerves overcome him. It fails and he knocks his beer overboard as he attempts to place a hand upon her leg. His nerves affect further attempts to touch her, making it feel more like a bubbling cop trying to frisk a criminal than the intended tender romantic touches. Feeling his nervous energy she knowingly takes his hand and places it upon her breast.  Cupping it with his palm, his fingers fumble with the fabric of her bikini top trying to make contact with her hard, erect nippple standing to attention begging for his touch.

This is a part of 100 words of Smut September hosted by OurSex Secrets.com. Each day in September there is a single word to prompt you to write 100 sexy words.

To read my posts in order visit my initial 100 words of smut post

G-Spot Lollipop Double Pop – Sex Toy Review

It’s Simply Squirt-a-licious

I have so  any positive comments to make about this toy it’s difficult to decide just where to start…

The G-Spot Lollipop is a very promising new sex toy that has only recently become a shining light on the sex toy radar, but after experiencing it first hand I’m certain it will start popping up in sex toy stores around the globe. It is as spectacular as it is simple, it is THE most effective toy I have come across for G-Spot stimulation and it is like a magic wand for conjuring up squirting orgasms.  I dare say it could give both the nJoy Pure Wand & Eleven a run for their money at a fraction of their cost. Hopefully that goes to show you just how effective this delightfully straight-forward sex toy is! I’m completely in love ♥

The Important Info:

Manufacturer: G-Spot Lollipop

Materials: The spherical pop is crafted from hypo-allergenic, body safe Acrylic, the stem is crafted from surgical steel and it is built to last a lifetime

Colors: I have the sexy Purple pop but the other color options include creamy orange and orange crush, wild apple, dark chocolate and pink passion.

Sizes: The overall length of the toy is right on 11″. There are 3 different size combinations available for   pop toy. The smallest double pop has lollipop balls that are 1″ and 1.75″ wide, The medium  (which I have) size pop 1.75″ and 2″ wide and the largest size has 2″ and 2.5″  wide lollipop balls. When it comes to girth the Medium size’s orbs are 5.5″ and 6.25″ in circumference, a girth quite similar to the nJoy Eleven

Variations: I have the double pop but there is also a J pop which Bean Fiddler recently reviewed, a travel sized pop and a single pop, with even more designs in the works.

Lube compatibility: I choose to stick to water based lubes as that way I don’t need to worry if I add another toy to the Lollipop is compatible with all types of lube. It’s one of those well rounded toys that gets along with everyone at play time!!

Care Instructions:  Lately I’ve been using toy wipes as they allow me to be lazy and just roll over and fall asleep after orgasm. However a simple soap and water style wash will do, or a diluted bleach solution if you wish to sterilize after anal use or for sharing. As I’ve already mentioned this is a well behaved and quite chilled out toy that just goes with the flow and is super easy to care for. I would be wary of boiling it though – I’m not sure that the acrylic wouldn’t melt if it sat against the bottom of the pot.

Price: The Double Pop currently retails for around $69.95 and is available direct or from one of the coolest online sex toy stores – SheVibe.com

My Review

The G-Spot Lollipop is the perfect toy for coaxing a shy or nervous G-Spot out of hiding and has quickly become my go to toy for internal stimulation.

Its simple, unadorned design is modern and fun. It doesn’t need any bells or whistles to create and cause such exceptional pleasure. It is straight forward and uncomplicated; It doesn’t vibrate, have controls or need an instruction manual to tell you how to use it. Nor does it have a long list of features and functions, rather it does just one thing and does it damn well!

The G-Spot Lollipop comes packaged just like a traditional lollipop. The largest end of my Double Pop was wrapped up in a piece of clear plastic and tied, together with a tag by a pretty matching ribbon. I like the minimal fuss and the fact that there is nothing unnecessary making it much friendlier to the environment. Then again, an un-pretencious toy such as this doesn’t require anything more than this minimal packaging to make it fly off the shelves.

For those that do enjoy some vibrations with their penetration the G-Spot Lollipop loves to play with others. Holding a vibrating bullet, pocket rocket or a any other kind of vibrator against the metal stick sends the vibrations straight through to the head of the pop. I’ve also found that it is amazing when paired with my we vibe, which in some ways turns this pop into the ultimate rabbit vibrator, providing intense G-Spot massage and vibration with simultaneous clitoral stimulation. Trust me it’s a combination made in heaven.

Great For Stubborn G-Spots

My smoke out campaign for stubborn G-Spots involves inserting the pop until it nestles just under the lower side of the cervix against the front wall of the vagina. Then whilst holding the handle end of the pop gradually angle it downwards so as to apply a little extra pressure to the front wall. Then very, very slowly start to withdraw it whilst maintaining the pressure. At some point you should find a spot where it feels extra good. It might take a few tries but when you find a spot that feels good stop pulling out and just rub the head of the pop against that spot.

Using mini strokes of no more than half an inch or so it is then quite easy to get that G-Spot to stand to attention. If you miss it on the first pass continue slowly scanning that front (anterior) wall whilst staying very relaxed. The more relaxed you are, the more likely you are going to be able to feel the distinction between mildly pleasurable spots and the ‘oh wow’ ones. If you think you’ve found it, but aren’t quite sure, do the mini thrusts whilst applying more and more pressure. It might take some time, but the G-Spot will eventually become engorged and difficult to miss.

G-Spot Lollipop and Squirting

The technique I use for having squirting orgasms is quite similar actually. Gradually applying pressure and slowly stimulating to get the urethral sponge engorged and all juiced up before giving it a right old pounding. With the pop it is very easy to locate the right spot as it sits right in behind your pubic bone below your cervix. It only takes a few quick thrusts with the end of the pop running over my pelvic bone for my pussy to turn into a geyser.

The first time I played with my G-Spot Lollipop it was a little like I was pumping water, these small but brisk little thrusts were making my vagina turn into a water fountain. Thank god for my Liberator Throe. The puddle was over a foot wide. That’s one orgasm I won’t be forgetting in a hurry.

Compared to the Eleven

In all honesty it is the best sex toy I own for squirting. It  out does the Pure wand  and is comparable to the Eleven – Gasp. I know that sounds blasphemous, but this baby is far easier to wield and thrust with than the far heavier pure wand and it manages to apply quite a bit more pressure too. The shaft isn’t angled or curved, but I’ve found that it really doesn’t have to be. The double pop is also  the same length as the Eleven and the larger end of my double pop is the same size as the girthy end of the Eleven as you can see in the photos of them side by side.

If size scares you don’t forget this is the medium sized pop and smaller sizes are available. Similarly size queens might be happy to hear that the 2″ wide bulb of my pop is dwarfed by the 2.5″ wide bulb of their largest size.

The lighter weight also makes it an easier weapon to wield and manipulate, as well as add vibrations too. I can’t say I’ll be ditching my nJoy toys EVER, but I’ve began to grab my pop instead quite a lot of the time when I just want a quick fix. If you’re not quite ready to drop a big chucnk of change for these full metal toys the G-Spot lollipop is a far cheaper for a toy that creates relatively similar results.

But wait there’s more…

I know I must sound like a cheezy infomercial, but I promise you my enthusiasm is real. I have to tell you about the double pleasure phenomenon which I’ve dubbed the “Vortex Effect” which is created by the spherical shape of the pops.

On the inward stroke with the pop the pleasure of penetration is experienced as one would expect, but  the outward stroke that holds a secret, secondary moment of pleasure.As with any dildo or wand you feel all the same great sensations of being penetrated and the walls of the vagina being stimulated. With a normal wand or dildo though the walls of the vagina are held apart by the toy whilst in use, but the pop allows the walls to close in again behind it.

Then as you begin the outward stroke it creates somewhat of a vortex, the walls of your pussy strongly gripping the pop,  not wanting to let it go. This creates a second sensation, quite similar to penetration, yet different and in some ways even more enjoyable. An enigmatic sensation that is difficult to describe – I think you need to experience it in order to understand it. But basically my pussy didn’t want to let go, it didn’t want to stop playing, somewhat like a little like a kid with a real lollipop!!

Conclusion

There are of course many other ways in which you could use this toy, or any of the others in the G-Spot Lollipop range. They are safe for anal use, both shape wise and material wise as the pops can be easily sterilised. The smaller pops can be used during penetrative sex and also make for really great Kegel exercisers.

I cannot think of a single reason as to why this toy doesn’t deserve 5 full stars and a place in my top 5 favourite sex toys. In fact it makes me wish I could give it more than 5 stars. I just love it. As yet it hasn’t fully replaced the Eleven as my favourite dildo for penetration, but it has become my go to toy for squirting! I have some concerns that my eyes are bigger than my vag, but I really want to try the whopping 2.5″ wide, size Queen pop.

★★★★★

You can grab your own G-Spot Lollipop Directly from their site where all of the different styles and colors are available for sale. You can also find them at what is possibly the coolest sex toy store on the web SheVibe.com

Budding Bliss

He holds his ice cold bottle of Bud, trying to act nonchalant as the growing bulge in his shorts becomes visible. Through the thin fabric she runs her finger against his cock, delicately teasing him as her eyes continue seducing him. He has dreamt of such a moment for many, many months.  he fears  the tender budding romance may be destroyed if he succumbs to the overwhelming desire to encourage her advances.  She trails her fingers from his groin up to his chest towards his face, lingering at his chin so as to direct his lips to meet her gentle kiss.

This is a part of 100 words of Smut September hosted by OurSex Secrets.com. Each day in September there is a single word to prompt you to write 100 sexy words. To read my posts in order visit my initial 100 words of smut post

They Sail

They sat side by side on the deck as they sailed across the harbour, taking refuge from the sun’s heat in the shadows of the sail. The flesh of their thighs pressed together, her every movement sent shock-waves through his body. His cock began to stir. His eyes fell to  her rounded breasts as he imagined caressing them with his lips.  She shot him a smouldering glance, almost as though she could hear his dirty thoughts and agreed with them. Gently and provocatively she placed her hand on his knee before gradually letting it glide up his inner thigh toward his ever hardening cock

This is a part of 100 words of Smut September hosted by OurSex Secrets.com. Each day in September there is a single word to prompt you to write 100 sexy words. To read my posts in order visit my initial 100 words of smut post

Bronze Angel

He sat there mesmerised by her radiant beauty before she stood and excused herself so that she could go and change into her bathing suit. His eyes followed her to her.  Her bedroom door remained open a crack, she thought  no one could see into her room from where they were gathered. Yet from his position he could see her image reflected in the bronze statue that stood in the hall. She unzipped her dress and her clothing fell to the floor as she released her long blonde hair. The silhouette of her long, lithe body  took on a sepia tone in the bronzed reflection. She became his bronze angel.

This is my first attempt at publishing anything like erotica, so please be kind.

Part of 100 words of Smut September hosted by OurSex Secrets.com. Each day in September there is a single word to prompt you to write 100 sexy words.

Broken, Beat & Scarred

Through black days
Through black nights
Through pitch black insides

Breaking your teeth on the hard life a comin’
Show Your Scars.
Cutting your feet on the hard earth running
Show Your Scars.
Breaking your life, Broken, Beat, & Scarred.
But we die hard.

The dawn,
The death,
The fight to the final breath.
What don’t kill ya make ya more strong.
The dawn,
The death,
The fight to the final breath.
What don’t kill ya make ya more strong.
Dawn, death, fight, final breath.
What don’t kill ya make ya more strong.
Dawn, death, fight, final breath.
What don’t kill ya make ya more strong.

They scratch me.
They scrape me.
They cut and rape me.

Breaking your teeth on the hard life a comin’
Show Your Scars.
Cutting your feet on the hard earth running
Show Your Scars.
Breaking your life, Broken, Beat, & Scarred.
But we die hard.

Breaking your teeth on the hard life a comin’
Show Your Scars.
Cutting your feet on the hard earth running
Show Your Scars.
Bleeding your soul in a hard luck story.
Show Your Scars.
Spilling your blood in the hot sun’s glory.
Show Your Scars.
Breaking your life, Broke, Beat, & Scarred

We die hard.
We die hard.
We die hard.

It is what it is