The Truth About Orgasms – Infographic

I’ve always thought that I was strange when it came to orgasms. I had always enjoyed having sex and always thought I was experiencing the real thing during the first few years that I was sexually active. That was up until I experienced the real thing. That may seem not that interesting, but rather the weird part for me is that before I experienced my first Orgasm I got pregnant and gave birth. I didn’t stumble upon that magic, body shuddering sensation until my son was a month or two old, and even then I was the one that induced it. I can’t remember the first time a partner made me orgasm but I do know that I’ve only experienced them with 2..maybe 3 of the people I’ve slept with in my entire life.

I guess it shouldn’t come as a surprise that up to 37% of women can’t orgasm. Thankfully now I can orgasm & like quite a few other women out there I can do so in more than one way. Visit the ‘Female Orgasm’ Infographic I posted a while back.

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Violet xx

Save On Your We Vibe2 – And an Updated Review

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I’ve had my We Vibe2 for quite a while now, and In that time I’ve managed to amass quite a collection of toys. Toys I absolutely love, but none come close to the We Vibe2, not even the toys that have recently made me squirt.

Why Is The We Vibe2 So Great?

Start Out by Reading my First Review Of the We Vibe2 – Then come back so I can fill you in some more… You back yet? ok – so here’s the deal…

It has single handedly revolutionised my sex life. And although I am yet to give a toy a bad review (don’t worry there is a bad review coming up soon) I simply cannot Scream the Praises of the We Vibe2 Loudly enough.

Before this Power Packed Purple Princess (❤alliterations!) my sex life with X was bland boring bad, orgasms were few and far between, and If I got lucky enough to have one they were far from earth shattering. NOW – I get a good old big double OO each and every time we have sex.It used to be him on top, me on top & feeling pressure to cum before he did and I pretty much psyched myself out every single time.

Not all women are the same, some of us have clitoral Orgasms whilst others have G-spot Orgasms and the lucky few Get to have the good Old Double O’s. I’ve long been a the clitoral type of woman, I’d have to be on top in order to get off, yet rarely did I get there.

With the We Vibe2 I have had absolutely Earth Shattering, Back Arching, Screaming Orgasm’s each and every time We have used it. No matter what Position we are in. He too is having much more intense Orgasms but it’s also the simple things about the We Vibe 2 that I love.

Like it has brought back the joy & intimacy of missionary position. Even without it’s vibrations turned on It creates that extra oomph and pressure so I can grind against his Pelvic bone as hard as I want without having the intimacy disconnected by flipping him over.

The We Vibe2 - How It is Used

As you can see the We Vibe2 Really is the sex toy worn whilst making Love.

The We Vibe2 Improved our Relationship

the #1 thing about the We Vibe2 is that it truly is a couples vibrator – the one that has brought me and X back together closer than we have been before – which is pretty big considering we are coming up on 15 years next month. It’s increased both of our sex drives, It’s certainly never Failed to deliver, but most Importantly it’s turned what was once just ‘fucking’ back into making love.

For me, my mind plays a huge part in my enjoyment of any sexual activity and sadly I was so focussed On actually getting off I would psych myself out & not even enjoy the sex. The We Vibe2 has taken that pressure off of me, and X too. I can enjoy what we are doing as I know I’m going to Orgasm at least once, if not more before he’s finished. This peace of mind Is one of the Key elements Why the We Vibe2 works so well for us.

It has helped me to let go and we have had the opportunity to explore so much more of each other, something we haven’t done in years. It’s re vamped our way of having sex and the romance behind it, stopping that ‘just going through the motions’ very mechanical sex you start having after being together for such a long time.

I won’t tell you that any sex toy no matter how amazing it is will heal a bad relationship, but I would highly recommend it to any couple stuck in a bit of a sexual rutt.

More Great Things about the We Vibe2

It’s fun to wear both in and outside of the house – this aspect of it certainly has revved up both of our sex lives. For me it obviously physically stimulates me whilst being worn, but it gets in my mind too. How ‘naughty’ I am, the small thought in the back of my mind of ‘I could get caught’ only ramps it up a notch. For him, just knowing I’m wearing it sends his mind & body racing. Try sitting across from one another whilst out at dinner… It’s like the idea of wearing no underwear out in public – but On Nitrous.

As It is non-porous Body Safe Silicone It is safe for Anal Play, However I only insert the G spot end Inside my butt as the small invisible hole where it plugs in for recharging may (although I do doubt it) harbour some small amount of bacteria that I wouldn’t want to breed and end up inside my vagina. I actually quite like it for Anal Play & want a second We Vibe2 so that I can have it ‘all’ and he can have the pleasurable vibrations above and below him.

In my first review I wrote of using it on him during Oral, Even now, 6 weeks later it still has the same ‘lightning bolt’ effect on him. I thought that over time (6 weeks is a long time for X) he would grow bored of it, but that hasn’t been the case, he may even love it more than I do.

Before the We Vibe2 entered the house it was always me begging him for sex, however the opposite is now true. I really couldn’t be happier.It certainly doesn’t hurt that both of us can use it solo as well as together. It’s for ‘WE’ not just for me.

In summation I guess what I’m saying is that it was the Best $140 I’ve ever spent. In my humble ol’ opinion the We Vibe2 isn’t just a sex toy, or only a vibrator, But really a marital aid – yeah I know that’s the PC or religious may to refer to a sex toy, but seriously it has had such a positive impact on our lives that I feel it is a ‘marital aid’. It has ensured me of an Orgasm every single time & has brought us closer emotionally, romantically and of course sexually. I say fuck the relationship counselling, just buy a We Vibe2! lol.

But seriously, what would you prefer a carton of smokes or a lifetime of Orgasms? The Latest release Ps3, Xbox or Wii game – or a sex toy you can share?

The We Vibe2 is the Ultimate Sex Toy as it turns your Partner into your favourite sex Toy – enough said?

Cheapest We Vibe2 In Australia

In Australia visit Adult Toys Corner .com.au where you can Order a We Vibe2 for only $107.95 Au , with free express shipping & of course a free mystery gift (I ordered mine Sunday & had it in Country Australia On the Wednesday – I imagine it would arrive by Tuesday in the Cities.)

EDIT: August 2011 their price has now dropped to just $82.95 – but if you can find a cheaper price from another Australian retailer AdultToysCorner.com.au will match it & throw in an extra gift for free!

In America You can grab a We Vibe 2 For only $99US  at EdenFantasys.com – you can also use the discount code N25 at the checkout to receive a further 15% discount on your purchases!

And If you are In the UK I’ve found the Lowest Price on the We Vibe 2 at Magical Pleasures for £64.75 with Free UK Delivery

Prices are all Current at Time Of Publication – & are obviously subject to change.

We Vibe 3?

I hope there will be a we vibe 3. There’s not much I don’t like about the We Vibe2 – but there is one thing I would change, I’m just not sure if it would be an Improvement or a hindrance?

However I’d love if it can with a remote control – I wish I could switch of the vibrations or alter their pattern whilst in use, which I sadly can’t manage to do without Interrupting the action. It would also make those out of the house adventures whilst wearing the We Vibe3 (?) even more exciting as he could ramp up the action at his desire.

Other than that all I can think of is that it would be great If it came pre charged – sadly that’s not really possible considering the length of time between manufacture and arriving in the consumer’s hands, but it’s something a geek could work on!

My Affiliations

Finally, In the spirit of trust & full transparency, I would like to let you know that I am an Affiliate with Adulttoyscorner.com.au where I earn a 10% commission on any products sold via links on my blog,

Commissions were not my purpose for this Post, I get the majority of visitors via links & search Engine searches related to the We Vibe – I had decided to do a 2nd write up about how great the We Vibe2 is, but when I saw how cheap it was I thought that it was a great time to tell you more about the best sex toy EVER whilst helping you get it for the cheapest Price Possible. If you have an issue with that feel free to go pay an awful lot more for it at some other site!

But if you want to support me – go ahead & fuck yourself – just use a link from my site!

Violet xx

I Taught Myself A New Trick

How I Discovered I can Squirt!!

There’s been a lot going on, I’ve got the flu and I’m procrastinating on 2 separate, yet almost finished reviews. I’m home alone Monday’s until late on Tuesday, so figured I’d just get myself off. Certainly can’t hurt to use the toys again before I complete the reviews, Right? I certainly need a little relaxation and ‘me’ time.

I’m totally enamoured with assbear.com’s hand picked, full length (this one’s just shy of half an hour), Free Porn Tube Clips and began watching this clip below; Source link:http://www.assbear.com/free/porn/teen-gone-wild

[EDIT] Jan 12 2011 – I’ve chosen to remove the clip as well as the links to it as linking to this style of porn type site and embedding clips can cause your site to be penalised by google and can prevent your domain from getting a page rank – check out some of my posts tagged with blogging for more info on page rank and google. However if you really want to see it just copy the link and paste it into your browser.

To start with I didn’t have the sound on & all of a sudden Im like WTF? Why does she keep jumping off of him? (yes I admit I’m often naive – but mostly just dumb) I was also enamoured with her larger than average clit – or at least much larger than mine.

Then I get a Phone Call, a Text Message, then a few tweets later and my precious Candy (My nickname for my new Layaspot) is forgotten, the porn has been abandoned and I’m out the door to do a bunch of chores. Finally get home.

Finally time to resume Masturbating. OOps I really did forget my ‘Candy’ Layaspot and hadn’t turned her off. Dead Batteries:( Oh Well! So I go grab my new Don Wands Curved Purple Swirl Dildo. Glass is so great, never need dumb assed batteries.

Now I can start paying some attention to the Porn I was watching earlier. . . finally the penny dropped. She’s Jumping off of him cause she’s Squirting!!

I’ve read a few things on squirting,I know what it is, I understand the principles of how it works and the theory of how to ‘teach’ yourself how to do it (actually If I remember correctly most of the articles were about telling men how to get women to squirt – Always thought -B’s fingers would be perfect for it. but as always I digress.)

The curved swirl wand seemed to be the perfect tool to hit that spot, that G-Spot hitting curve and the large head. I also found two spare batteries Under my laptop and fired my Layaspot back up.

I relaxed, I explored myself, I had fun. I really really wanted to cum, but it just wasn’t happening. I’d probably watched that same clip twice by this time; When with the wand inside me pressed against that right spot, the layaspot rested against it sending vibrations through the glass, my finger rubbing my clit and my mind in very naughty dirty places…I felt a gush. a tiny gush, but still a gush. Yet I didn’t believe it. I hadn’t cum, there’s no way that could be even a tiny squirt.

So I kept going, wishing I had a few extra hands, I truly ‘Let go’ of everything. When people say that getting of and having mind blowing Orgasms is in the mind for women – I tend to agree. An earlier, Indirect conversation caused me to let go of everything. I was so into it I didn’t have a single care in the world. I was 100% relaxed and didn’t give a shit about anyone or anything – It was an empowering place to be mentally.

Shortly after I felt another small gush like sensation, then another, and yet another. each slightly bigger than the one before, yet remaining quite small. I wasn’t turning back now. At that moment I probably would’ve fucked anyone that wanted me. I was sot turned on physically that It is beyond compare,whilst my mind was on a wholly separate plane, I didn’t even realise That 2 hours had passed. It felt euphoric, almost like an opiate haze – but that ,may be the cough syrup talking!

I still couldn’t quite believe I was doing it. I just thought I was extra wet and the ‘gush’ sensation was just my juices welling up and then running free… Then I seriously squirted. No fucking Denying it Now. My Undies were soaked beyond saturation, as was my skirt and the doonah I was lying on. All that pent up sexual energy literally burst forth from me.

And before some smart ass pipes up and says, “you just pee’d your pants” shut the fuck up. It wasn’t pee. It’s clear & actually kinda reminded me of amniotic fluid lol.

I’ll do some research and seek out the articles I had read and do a more descriptive post – But I’m just so…. well speechless. But I had to share.

So above mentioned Porn + A Curved Purple Swirl Glass Wand + layaspot + relaxing & finally letting go = Learning to squirt. Well for me at least. I’d love to hear about your experiences, or posts you’ve read about learning to squirt.

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And with this rather wet post I do hereby Christen my New Domain – www.Screaming-Violet.com – in the name of all things Fucking Sexual. All Previous Posts will remain at the old ‘screamingviolet.wordpress.com’ site, but I have moved all of the content here. Please beware of the construction clutter, still figuring out a few kinks with the domain & the theme.

Click the RSS Icon at the top of the page to subscribe to the new feed, alter your book marks or links to the new address, & If you aren’t already following on twitter do that too as I love talking to you guys x x

And if you have any problems with the site just leave a comment to let me know.(I know a lot of the thumbnails are missing images, and that the thumbnails aren’t linking to the posts – but like I said I’m still ironing the kinks.)

I’m going to catch some well deserved sleep!

Violet xx

P.S Since this Post I did It again, read about it – My Double Orgasm Squirting Post

Myths about Men

And Other Things I’ve Learnt This Week

In the past 18 days of having this blog up and running I think I have learned more about sex than I have in the past 18 years of having sex! I always thought I was pretty in the know about sex and certainly open minded… but WOW – was I naive.

I still Am. Yesterday I was reading something that referred to the term CFNM … I had to google it. (It is an acronym for Clothed Female Naked Male – a common sexual fantasy and fetish) -> there’s another one right there -> What is the difference between a sexual fantasy & a fetish?

Someone can have a fetish for leather—the material turns him on, the smell and feel of it—while another guy may fantasize about leather sex, i.e. guys in leather, getting all sweaty, and going at it.

Fetishes are usually understood to involve mostly inanimate objects/material (shoes, cigarettes, latex), but fantasies tends to involve scenarios and roles. But the minute someone starts to fantasize about, say, wearing latex, separating fetishes from fantasies can get messy. Dan Savage

After googling that I had to google GGG ->A term coined by sex advice columnist Dan Savage which stands for Good, Giving and Game. He also helped to coin the terms ‘Pegging’ -> See My new page ‘Violet’s Vocabulary’ for more terms I have learned lately!

Yet AGAIN I digress….Myths about Men. This post began in my mind a few weeks ago when I came across a couple of articles & blog posts discussing the fact that Men fake it too and that they can achieve Orgasm without ejaculation.(Did You Come? Yes & No -&- Ejaculate You’ll make her happy) A topic I will revisit after some discussion of said articles with my most promiscuous male mates. And once more I’ve Digressed…

Start over… Myths about Men – things I learned by taking Cosmo’s “What is your Sex IQ quiz” that I wanted to share with you all. Some I knew, Some I didn’t…..

1. It’s possible for guys to have multiple orgasms. True or False
   • True – I knew this one due to the above mentioned articles ✓
2. What Percentage of Men in Relationships Always have an Orgasm during Sex? – 55% – 75% -95
   • I answered 95% ✗
   • However It is 75% of men in a relationship that have an orgasm with their partner Compared to 28.6% of women in relationships! ✓
3. What’s the average Length of a Hard Penis? – 3 to 4 inches – 6 inches – 5 to 6 inches?
   • 5 to 6 inches – I answered correctly ✓
4. If a Guy thrusts too hard he could break his Penis. True or False
   • False – Trauma can cause Membranes to tear, but it can’t Break like a Bone. ✓
5. Who day dreams more while getting it on, Men or Women?
   • Women – Women Fantasise more than Men during Sex. ✓
6. In America, most people’s number of sexual partners is in the Single Digits. True or False?
   • I Answered True ✗
   • The Answer is False – The average American will have about 11 sexual partners in his or her lifetime.
7. In some parts of the country (America) girls have to get approval from their parents in order to wax ‘down there’. True or False?
   • True (I answered true as the US have some truly insane laws lol!) Missouri requires minors to have parental consent before getting a bikini wax. ✓
8. The Clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as the Penis. True or False?
   • True – The head of the clitoris has approximately 8,000 nerve endings, the largest concentration in the entire body. The penis has only 4,000.  ✓
9. “The Bigger the Feet, the Bigger the Meat” – True or False?
   • False – It’s impossible to tell the size of a guy’s penis by the size of his hands and feet. ✓ (although I’ve found finger length to be a good guide! lol
10. Do Guys have a G-Spot? Yes or No?
    • Yes – It’s in the prostate gland. (accessible via their anus) ✓
11. Intercourse burns as many calories as running a mile. True or False
    • True – On average, sex burns between 100-150 calories per sack session. ✓
12. If a guy has a small flaccid penis, It won’t be much bigger when Erect. True or False?
    • False – The length of a flaccid penis has no direct correlation to the size of the same penis when erect. ✓
    • Most guys are either growers or showers – but have come across @ least one guy who is both a shower and a grower!!
    • I have my own theory that the lower a guys sack hangs the more he will grow – the loose flesh of his nut sack gets ‘sucked up’ into the erection – but it’s just a personal theory!!
13. After the bedroom, what’s the second most popular place for couples go to to ‘get it on? The Car or A Public Rest Room
    • The Car – The car is the second most common out-of-the-bedroom spot for couples to have sex. ✓
14. Guys can Fake Orgasms too. True or False
    • Again after the articles mentioned above I Answered True – Most men fake it every now and then. ✓

So I managed to get a decent 12/14 right! whoo hoo for me!!!

How well would you have done if I didn’t give you the Answers??

Violet xx

P.S. I apologise for the screw ups of this wordpress theme – Not only is it hard to read, but it is mucking up the ordered and un ordered lists grrrrr – Hopefully I can find another half decent looking theme that will both look great and function the way I want it too. At least until I get moved to my own theme on my own domain!!