Weekend Reading

Sexy Blogging Fun

If you are a regular reader of my blog you should know I absolutely Love sexual memes, and regularly participate in  WTMFI Wednesdays – even if some of my posts come out a few days late! But this weekly sexual meme run by Valerie Rayne over on the Rantings Network are merely the tip of the iceberg for those who like a bit of sexy blogging fun.

This weeks Weekend Reading List is all about sexual memes in one form or another. Things that let you show off that uninhibited exhibitionist side, whilst playing the ‘game’ with other bloggers and participants. Some of these have been around a while and are well known, others maybe not so well known, but they should be as they sound so much fun! A few I’ve participated in, whilst others I plan to… hopefully in the not to distant future. I hope you’ll join me and take part too.

Wanton Wednesdays

Plays on the rule of K.I.S.S – keep is simple & sexy – Post your Provocative Promiscuous and Somehow sexually Suggestive Photos of yourself every Wednesday, then visit Wanton Wednesdays. Grab the Wanton Wednesdays Banner to post along with your picture and comment so you can share your Wanton Wednesday Wonders with all the other participants. I can hardly wait for X to get home and pull the Camera Out, getting as many photos as I can so that I don’t have to wait on him to come home for me to take part each week. Wanton Wednesdays is brought to you by the very Delicious and Sexy Dangerous Lilly – who’s also the wonder woman behind E Lust as well as other amazing sex blogging things!

E Lust

On that note, If you are a Blogger writing about all things Sexual and Erotic you certainly should take a look at E Lust, whether it is to submit a post or just to get some sensual inspiration for your next post, You are sure to find something lustful to enjoy at E Lust. Even if you aren’t a blogger you may still enjoy signing up for this B-Weekly Ezine

Half Nekkid Thursday

Every Thursday you can get part, or all of your kit off (within reason – check the HNT guidelines first if you are unsure) and celebrate your beauty & Nekkid’ness. Yes it’s Half ‘NEKKID’ Thursday, not naked!! It’s popular, and certainly fun to participate in or simply just observe. Visit the home of HNT to grab yourself a Half Nekkid Thursday Button for your HNT Post, check out the guidelines and then start snapping away with your Camera – trust me it is great fun, and a very simple & easy way to add a little extra spice if things are a little stale with your partner!

The Other HNT:

If you wish for your Half Nekkid Thursday Photos to stay anonymous, or if you don’t already have your own blog to post them on, you can send them in and have the ‘ other HNT‘  post them for you.

Sapio Slut’s Scavenger Hunt

Inspired by VoyeurWeb.com’s Scavenger hunt Sapio Slut has begun her own Scavenger Hunt, which in order to participate you need to get your gear off, or at least half of it, and get your photo taken in a number of interesting places. Such as your local sex shop, A Church, the beach, or Even at The Petrol Pump!  So get out, get it off and get yourself a Scavenger Hunt Award for your bold nudity.

I whipped my shirt off in public last night for my first entry into the scavenger hunt. I was so buzzed afterwards I had trouble sleeping! – Just be at least a little wary when getting your gear off in Public Places, you don’t want kids or those who may be offended to ‘accidentally’ see you in all your naked glory! Don’t go getting yourself arrested. Take a look at how other participants like  Curvaceous Dee have participated in a sensible, child safe way, just as Sapio Slut did by asking for permission before she de-robed inside her favourite sex shop. I can’t see myself ever being game enough to flash my flesh inside a sex store, or any store for that matter, but in my opinion It doesn’t matter if you get it all off, as long as you have fun and you push your own boundaries It’s all great! – Although I’ve got the photos, I’m still working on getting up the courage to post them.

As for other memes you may like there’s also TMI Tuesday, but they haven’t released a new round of questions since their CELEB edition, but it’s still fun to share too much information about yourself using posts from their archives. As well as Friday Fill-ins – although it isn’t particularly sexy – you may still just enjoy it, especially if you’ve got a bit of writer’s – or rather Blogger’s Block and are in need of a little inspiration.

If you know of Any other similar fun activities to take part in please do comment, as I’m sure that at least one other person will want to know about it and take part too.

And Finally this Weeks Sex Toy Give Aways

Babeland.com are Giving away a 24 K Gold, Diamond Encrusted Vibrator from Jimmy Jane. This $2750 Sex Toy could be yours by simply signing up for Babeland’s Newsletter. You have up until the very end of August, With a winner being announced by Babeland on September 1st 2010. Whilst you are over there please visit their Come for a Cause page. Where for a $5 donation you will receive a free bottle of Jimmy Jane Beyond Euphoric Massage Lotion – no other purchase necessary, or If you make a $5 donation whilst purchasing a Jimmy Jane Product for over $75 you will receive a free Jimmy Jane Ember Candle. So Come for a Cause and help raise funds for SEICUS- Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States.

Weekend Reading

Female Ejaculation & Free Sex Toy Give-Aways

I am finally over the awful flu that had me stuck in bed for nearly 3 weeks straight, so No more excuses for not putting together a set of blogs for you to read over the weekend.

Since discovering that I could Squirt I’ve become quite transfixed with the wonders of female Ejaculation and have been reading some very interesting and informative blogs and articles on the topic. This amazing feminine wonder that I long thought was nothing more than an urban legend or sexual myth, but now know first hand is 100% real & possible.

My Posts about discovering I could Gush for the first time and being able to do it again are the most visited pages of my blog so I have been working on my own little guide to ‘Squirting 101‘.  I thought it could be a cool way to continue to share my discoveries regarding female ejaculation with you whilst learning more about it myself. Whilst my ‘Squirting 101‘ posts are still in the research & writing phase I thought that those who have enjoyed those posts so much would enjoy some of the great posts and articles I’ve found on the subject of Female Ejaculation, making it a perfect topic for this weeks Weekend Reading.

• Helping A Woman Ejaculate from Tantra.com
• Female Ejaculation On Wikipedia
• Lady Squirters Blog A Blog devoted to the beautiful art of female ejaculation
• How To Make A Girl Squirt from SexTipsFree.com

There’s Plenty more Squirting Porn Blogs out there, as well as more helpful, honest & free resources, but those few should keep you bust for what little is left of the weekend.

I wanted to share some squirting bits & pieces with you but at the same time I want to share with you all of the cool currently Running Free Sex Toy & other Adult Product Give-Aways so you too can get free Sex Toys.

Sex Toy Give-Aways

Dangerous Lilly’s Milestone Give-Away – Which I’ve Blogged About Previously closes on July 1st

Of Sex And Love -  Two For You Give-Away Giving away ‘The Ultimate Satisfier‘ and a Copy of ‘Sex Is Fun’ – closes July 2nd

Misfit Momma After Hours - Giving away a Vamp Dildo ends 4th July

Feminina Deliciosa Hot Summer Nights Giveaway - Giving away Body Paints, Porn & sexy Lingerie – Visit her give away page to find out more

If I come across more I’ll add them to the list & as always If you have a blog or article you think I should add to this list, or Know of Any Other Sex Toy & Adult Product Give-Aways Please comment so I can add them.

Violetxx

Weekend Reading – Down Under Edition

Hot & Sexy Bloggers From Australia

I love being able to share the blogs I’ve been reading with those who read my blog. Considering I’m Australian I figured it was about time I shared with you the other hot sex blogs from Down-Under

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Weekend Reading – Top Sex Tweeters

Top Sex Tweeters I follow on Twitter & their Blogs.

I am only new to Twitter, I’ve made only 217 tweets at this point, but I’m hooked. I enjoy how easy it is to disseminate information throughout a community of peers – such has been evident in the sex and sex toy blogging community after what has come to be known as the ‘Eden Fallacies‘ scandal.  I’m also hooked on the instant gratification and interactivity of it all.

It is a great way to keep up to date with all your favourite websites and blogs latest posts as well as pictures, articles and other ‘stuff ‘ they share with their followers.

Plus I’ve discovered you can follow people and tweet your way to winning Free Sex Toy Give-Aways!

So In Lieu of a Post of the sexually related blogs I’ve read this week I thought I’d share some of the sexy bloggers and websites I follow on Twitter (along with a link to their great Blogs!) If you aren’t already following me @VioletScreaming on twitter you better do so now for my latest blog posts, Pics and more!! – check out my twitter profile for a full list of the people I follow on Twitter.

BTW – Most Of These Tweeters Post things that ARE NSFW

My #1 Tweeter is of course @Alexa_DiCarlo from RealPrincessDiaries.com – not only is she fun and the owner of an Amazing Blog, she’s also tweeted live whilst fucking clients, and constantly tweets super hot pics and other interesting articles etc regarding all things sexual. Please Read her Twitter Page at RPD before you start following her

I’d Also Like to make Special Mention Of @TheCherryScoop, Fellow sex blogger, and Sex Toy Reviewer who just happens to also be from Australia – just like me!! Please check out her cool blog at ThCherryScoop.blogspot.com

Now for more Sex Toy Reviewers Who’s Blogs I’ve been Reading and Loving this week.

@Epiphora – HeyEpiphora.com – I mentioned Epiphora and her blog in my last ‘Weekend Reading‘ post with a little bit about her being banned from the Community @ sex toy retailer Eden Fantasy’s website, It appears her banning led to the Discovery of the sites Un-Ethical link trading Practises by another fellow sex blogger Maymay over at Maybe Maimed, But Not Harmed. The Fallout of Which has earned itself the unflattering Moniker of ‘Eden’s Fallacies’ Visit Epiphora’s Latest Post On the Eden’s Fallacies for more Information -> Eden Fantasy’s  A Pattern of Deception.

@Essinem – Essin-em.com- Sexuality Happens- Another blogger mentioned in My last ‘Weekend Reading‘ post of bloggers who’ve been burned by EF, as a former employee of the company she was also treated very disrespectfully.

@aagblog - aagblog.com – Also mentioned last week, Always Aroused Girl has also had to take the company behind EF to court in order to get money owed to her. See her blog for more info on her troubles with them as well as the breaking Scandal. AAG even coined the term ‘bullshitilicious’ to describe the situation of EF being a link Black Hole earning their reputation yet another Black Mark.

But it doesn’t end there, more sex toy reviewers and members of the sex blogging community have been banned from the sites public forums without any warning for simply asking questions whilst others have been banned without even making a post to the forums.

I’m a Big Fat N00BIE and can’t really write about what is going on, but I can say it’s Fucked Up, and I can tell you about these great people who are being treated like crap and direct you to their sites to read about it for itself. I can also thank those who have spoken up and made this public so that other N00bs like me know to steer well clear of the bs.

@WilhemenaWang has published a Link Round-Up : Eden Fantasy’s, More Like Epic FAIL on her website Heart Break Nymphomania

@Britisshameless – Oh My God That Britni’s Shameless Blog – Not only keep up to date with the latest posts to the blog, but be pleasured and entertained by the sexy and funny pics she posts on twitter – also check out->  BritIsShameless on tumblr

@Caenivalesque – Carnivalesque.com – Where Life’s a Carnival – exploring sex and sexuality, sex toy reviews  and more.

@Adriana_r from ofsexandlove.com – Her blog is a wealth of information on love and sex – but mostly sex. Hers is the latest blog I have absolutely devoured this week, and I can’t wait for more.

@toywithme – twitter account of the ToyWithMe.com website for sex toy reviews and more… Loving their Latest post by Nicole Antoinette – Six Things I learned From My Sex Swing

@Babeland_Toys – www.babeland.com – Top quality sex toys for a passionate world

@VixinCreations – Vixen Creations.com– Creators Of the Super Realistic, Super Safe Range Of Sex Toys.-As Re-Tweeted by @Babeland_Toys they’re the ‘World’s Best Cock Makers’

Now For those FREE Sex Toy Give-Aways I told you about

Follow these tweeters & check out their blogs to win your very own sex toy in their current Give-Aways ;

@Pleasurists -Pleasurists Adult Review Round-Up – Published Weekly Promoting that weeks Sex Toy Reviews, and Sex Toy Give-Aways. Kind of the one stop shop to find the most recent sex toy reviews as well as the adult and sex toy Give-Aways

@CrystalDToys – www.VirtuallyAdult.com – Are Giving away a free, yet to be released on the Market  A Red Magma Crystal Delights Plug when they reach 300 Followers,-  {View It Here} so Follow, Tweet & Re-Tweet. Currently at 234 followers, only 66 more people til they one lucky follower wins it!

@JonsBabyDoll – her blog The Blogging Slave – Follow @JonsBabyDoll and ask her questions via her formspring account to participate in her sex toy giveaway – visit her giveaway post for further information.

@PrettyPowrTools – PrettyPowerTools.com – Is currently celebrating her blog’s ‘Dirty Thirty’ by giving away a free ‘OhMiBod’ Musically Powered Vibrator. I’ve entered have you?

@SplendWhore – From Tales From the Toi Box- Sex Blogger and Sex Toy Reviewer, Currently very active in participating in the sex toy givea-ways, watch her daily tweets for more info on the currently open give-aways

@NamelessChaos – NamelessChaos- Another great person to follow for all the sex toy give-aways.

Both these tweeters are courteous enough to warn you before they do their daily give-away spam like tweeting – so either pay attention for the latest give-aways or look away to ignore the spam.

And…I think that’s it, yet know there are many many more. You can view the list all of the people I follow on twitter, or Any of my other twitter lists at @VioletScreaming.

Do you think you or someone else belongs on this list? Just let me know… I love when you share.

Violetxx

Weekend Reading

Sex Starved Love

Welcome to Another weeks worth of Weekend Reading. I apologise for its lateness, but I had my publishing abilities suspended after linking to a site that WordPress.com had black listed. I have now removed the link to lubetube the offending site and can hit the publish button once again.

This week two particular ‘themes’ or ‘situations’ that fall under the banner of ‘All things Sexual’ have really gotten under my skin. #1 is relationships where partners sexual drives are out of balance. #2 is people being fired or otherwise being discriminated because they write about sex online. (I’m sorry that there are so few blogs on this weeks reading list – my browser crashed & erased not only all the tabs I had open, but their history too grrr…Look out for a mid week reading list lol)

I know far too many truly amazing guys who are married or partnered up with truly ungrateful women. Men that long to tease, please, spoil and pleasure their partners both in and out of the bedroom but are being denied the satisfaction of bringing sexual pleasure to the woman they love. But it isn’t a one way street as their are plenty of women who long to suck and fuck their men til the cows come home out their being ignored.

• Unwanted Husband
• Sex-starved: 20-million American Couples Going ‘Without‘ – **Article – Goes to show you’re not alone!
• Sex With The Wife
• Article -> The Sex Starved Marriage

Far too many people in relationships are going without and falling asleep sexually frustrated right beside the one they love. It is so common that the term ‘sexorexic’ has been coined!  It is a topic that I have strong feelings towards and intend to discuss further in the future.

★People Who have gotten fired for tweeting and blogging about sex :

This is a hole I could so easily fall into. With twitter accounts being linked to your email address you too could find yourself in hot water for expressing your sexual thoughts and feelings in tweets. Not all of these blogs and articles are from people who got fired…but they all found themselves in some uncomfortable situations due to sexual tweets!!

• I Got Fired For Writing About Sex – How ‘The Beautiful Kind’ got fired
• The Beautiful Kinds blog – the one that got her fired.
• The Google results regarding her getting fired for her sex blog
• I was Dr Decadence - he didn’t loose his job… but he got burned

Considering that the ‘I got fired For Writing About Sex’ is published on part of the ‘Eden Fantasys network Isn’t it ironic that they too (Eden Fantasys) have fired or rather banned other sex bloggers from their very wide network of reviewers. (still editing this)

**this list has grown from two banned sex toy reviewers to…well you can count… I will add to this list as I continue to find more sex blogger’s who have been ‘banned’ by this company. **the more I look the more I find…

• Always Aroused Girl
  • May 14th 2010☛ Problems with EdenFantasys, Take Nine-Thousand
  • August 19th 2009 Following
  • March 23rd 2009 ☛Back to the beginning
  • January 5th 2009☛ Update on EdenFantasys.com Problems
  • October 17th 2005 **Updated since to cover all of her dramas with the company**☛ Problems With Eden Fantasys
  • Always Aroused Girl May have more posts regarding her issues with EF – go visit her blog. Actually you should seriously follow her blog!!

• Hey Epiphora - the latest sex toy reviewer and adult blog writer ‘banned’ by EF
• Essin-Em
• Ask Garnet – a Wolf in Sheeps Clothing
• Sarah Sloane – on Money, Ethics & real sex-positivety

Ok.. I’m going to quit adding links to this weekends reading list now. I’m so pissed that these women have been treated so poorly by EF that I’m going to have to do an entire post on it.

As much as their treatment sucks, I am very grateful they have all blogged about it – as I won’t be pursuing any kind of relationship with that sex toy site. I am however very happy that I will soon be working with Adultsextoys.com as a reviewer whilst doing my bit to get Australian Adult and sex toy stores to get their shit together and start reviewers programs.

Again I apologise for skewing far from my original subject of sexless love – but I will be blogging about it in the very near future

With love from one very pissed of and honestly…Screaming Violet xx

Why I Love Blogs

The how & the why behind the fact that I ♥ blogs so much

I’ve been working on putting together this weeks ‘Weekend Reading‘ post, however I ended up writing about why I love reading blogs and how I go about following them. I ended up so far from simply listing this weeks worth of favourite blogs that I thought I should simply create a post from it… So here it is.

One of the reasons I love to read peoples blogs is because they are written from their owner’s personal point of view – well duh!! – but what I mean is that I find blogs to be so much more personal and insightful than other forms of written media. Bloggers usually don’t have a boss to answer to, nor a set of rules to follow etc, they are writing to simply share themselves.  Most bloggers are sharing the most vulnerable parts of themselves, the parts that they cannot share with those people involved in their everyday life. I guess it appeals to the voyeur in me.

The connection between writer and reader is so much closer and intimate through blogs. A relationship that seems to grow over time as you follow them through the trials and tribulations of their lives. There are plenty of ways to follow blogs, you can bookmark them, subscribe to their rss feed and read their latest posts via your favourite reader – such as google reader, some (such as mine) you can subscribe to via email and you can often follow the author of a blog on twitter to be kept up to date as to their latest posts.

I personally follow my favourite blogs via twitter, and subscribe to their rss feeds via google reader. However I use an add on to my Fire Fox browser called ‘feedly‘ to have all of my favourite blogs I subscribe to via google reader  sorted and presented in an online magazine style page. It them all together in one place, in a super easy to sort through and read layout, All of which I can access with one click on the icon next to the address bar in Firefox – So please do Check Feedly out.

Most of my favourite blogs that I follow are linked to in the sidebar, or at the bottom of the page in my blogroll. My Rss Feed can be subscribed to via the little orange icon at the top of every page, or you can follow me @VioletScreaming on twitter. If you have any problems with subscribing to my feed or to any other sites feeds feel free to comment or contact me for help.

If you know of, or have a blog you think I should be following please feel free to comment below.

Violet xx

Weekend Reading

Mother’s Day Morning

As it will be Mother’s day here In Australia (yes Im both a mum and an Aussie – I really need to get something written about me in my about me section) I thought I would bring you some Blogs by the other women out there blogging about sex, most are by Horny Housewives & mum’s, but why should I constrain the fun.

So this weekend’s reading list includes…

• #1 has got to be Toy With Me.com - Silly sex stories, great sex toy reviews and so much more from a group of women, Some are housewives and mum’s, others aren’t, yet they are all hilarious, very down to earth and their writing incredibly easy to connect with. One of their Contributors – Chrissy has not only gotten to take my beloved Romp in the sack with both my favourite sex toy so far – the We Vibe2 – and her hubby but she has also written  a great review of the couple’s vibrator being used for its intended use… by a couple… rather than during solo sex like poor little old me lol EDIT: finally got to try mine out with live cock – but my review is still… cuming…like me lol

• I admit that including Toy With Me.com and their review of the we Vibe2 isn’t just for your Weekend Reading Pleasure – I have ulterior motives.. They are giving away a Free We Vibe2 to one of their readers. And this Blog post not only informs you about a great fun sexual website, but it may also help me to win my ultimate we vibe2 experience… A 2nd We Vibe2… Why do I want two? Because the more the merrier (plus I’ve become a but slut and love the easy hands free use of my we vibe to make my ass and my partners balls to vibrate whilst we fuck! lol.

• X Me More’s Blog – Girls Just Want to Have Fun! This is what I intend to devour during my mid morning lay in,  brought to me kindly by the fact it’s mother’s day down here in OZ. I have only had the chance to check out a few of her posts so far, but intend to steal the idea of playing ‘Shot Gun’ for my own personal carnal delight. I’m wet just considering the notion, I’m so happy to have found you.

• Pillow talk by Fantasia Lilith – Beautifully crafted erotic tales. She may or may not be a housewife or a mother, but she does write scintillating sexually fuelled tales.

• Teaseblogger – Not just a blogger but a provider of an amazing stream of porn updates. I found Teaseblogger over on twitter – @teaseblogger where she tweets about the latest and greatest updates of porn from all over the internet. I thought I had found visual sexual heaven in her tweets… Then I started to read her blog… I’m not going to tell you all about it, you will have to check out her blog for yourself!

I hope you enjoy this little group of links – check out my blogroll @ the bottom of the page  for more of my favourite sites and scenes.

And As Always If you have another favourite site you think should make my reading list – Simply comment, Or if YOU have your own blog It is a must, even if it’s just so that I can check out your site.

Violetxx