“WOULD YOU RATHER…”
WTMFI Wednesdays Week #20
I’ve been putting off answering this weeks Questions, to say they make me squirm is an understatement… As my Answers depend on the situation, or rather the sexual partner. My answer’s relating to X are the polar opposite to what I would answer regarding -B. A conundrum that’s spun me into a bit of a sexual existential dilemma, but it is one that has been brewing since I had to say goodbye to -B (or at least the B part of the friendship) and I have started to consider what I want out of a FWB or NSA sexual relationship. I’ve even got X to the point where he is liking the idea of the MFM threesome more & more, yet I really am confused and don’t know what I want.
The other afternoon I had a long chat with one of my bestest mates, an ex from a million years ago. My one true love lol. He was that perfect summer romance,, a guy that truly treated me like a queen until the day he had to return home. I’ll tell you more about him one day, I’m hoping to get to see him sooner or later..anyway back to our discussion. It was a bit of a loveless sex Vs sexless love kind of debate. We both came down on the loveless sex side of things, but with conditions… No we won’t be having sex together…EVER – our time came & went and it is a beautiful love bubble I never wish to taint (although neither of us know why we never did fuck?? we certainly weren’t virgins)
I guess I’m a bit used to loveless sex as I don’t feel the love in the sex with X, nor was there love with -B, but that’s not to say I’m crossing the possibility of love off my list of future hopes, It just isn’t a priority right now. However I do like to love the person I’m with whilst I’m fucking them – which is one of the conditions my perfect summer love mate & I decided upon.
Loveless sex is great, but you do need to know the person, you don’t need to be friends, but as long as you know them sexually & are comfortable to express yourself sexually then all is good. (I never got to that able to let go & really express myself point with -B). It needs to be something more than a random fuck, a one night stand or even just a booty call, but certainly less attachment than even a casual dating style relationship.
When I’m with someone like, let’s say it’s an overnight type interlude – during that night I want to be able to love that person, touch them, fondle them, kiss them, spoil them, please them and really get them off. I guess you could liken it to a prostitute offering a GFE or ‘Girl Friend Experience’ style service to a regular client. Actually Yeah, that’s exactly what I want…
Someone I can spend time with holed up in a hotel room, loving them, fucking them,ordering room service with them & maybe even watching a movie together. Both completely wrapped up in each other…until check out time when we go our separate ways and return to our normal lives. Staying in touch with an email here or there, or a text or two every few days to a week, all depending on your combined schedules. I like the idea of staying in touch simply to drive each other wild so that the moment you see one another you just want to rip their clothes off.
So if there’s any guy out there somewhere between say Newcastle and Lismore & you’re interested…email me lol. Anyway back to our usual WTMFI Programming…
This Week’s Questions
- Would you rather have quick sex OR very long sex (don’t include foreplay!)?
- Would you rather you orgasm every time, OR your partner orgasming every time (only one of you gets to cum)?
- Would you rather have a super intense and completely meaningless sex session OR an average, intimate and deeply personal sex session?
- Would you rather have more foreplay and less sex OR less foreplay and more sex?
- Would you rather roll over and fall asleep after sex OR take a shower and then cuddle?
BONUS QUESTION:
Would you rather dirty talk such as, “I love your tight/big pussy/cock. I’m gonna fuck you/pound me because you’re/I’m such a whore!” OR soft, gentle and romantic talk such as, “You are the most wonderful person in the world. I love that you do this. I want you so bad.”?
My Answers;
Would you rather have quick sex OR very long sex (don’t include foreplay!)?
Well If we aren’t including foreplay…I guess I’d say a good hard quick fuck – with lots of foreplay… at least during the week with really long, leisurely sex on the weekends. I want it all!
Would you rather you orgasm every time, OR your partner orgasming every time (only one of you gets to cum)?
Definitely them. It’s important to me that they get off, as long as I get that craving for being penetrated fed, I’m happy not to cum.
Would you rather have a super intense and completely meaningless sex session OR an average, intimate and deeply personal sex session?
This is the question that caused me the greatest dilemma. I’d have to say the super intense but completely meaningless sex at the moment, but if I were in love I’d want that deep connecting, souls entwined, don’t realise 2 hours have passed passionate personal sex.
Would you rather have more foreplay and less sex OR less foreplay and more sex?
The more foreplay and less sex, I’ve been doing the ‘skip the foreplay, please just fuck me’ style sex for far too long so I have to choose more foreplay.
Would you rather roll over and fall asleep after sex OR take a shower and then cuddle?
Either, I’m truly not fussed, but I do enjoy being able to just go ‘aahhh’ afterwards & having a smoke.
BONUS QUESTION:
Would you rather dirty talk such as, “I love your tight/big pussy/cock. I’m gonna fuck you/pound me because you’re/I’m such a whore!” OR soft, gentle and romantic talk such as, “You are the most wonderful person in the world. I love that you do this. I want you so bad.”?
Can I have a bit of both? I’m a filthy dirty talker at times, but saying I love what you are doing to me, I need you so bad – well It doesn’t require love to say such things… so Im up for all of it, or even silence.
I think I’m going through a very experimental phase in my sexual life right now. Just wish I was exploring such things with someone I didn’t know so well. After half your life it does tend to become boring & bland no matter how great the sex is.
So after all that, what do I really want? I want an exact replica of -B, but maybe one who lives closer and talks more lol 😛
Violetxx
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