Free Sex Toys Courtesy of My Pleasure for Sex Toy Day

I regularly blog about sex toy give-aways and such, I’ve also recently hosted my own sex toy give-away for the first time – But Sex Toy Day is a little different to all of the free sex toy deals I’ve previously posted about as this  time the amazing people from My Pleasure are giving away 1,000 – yep One Thousand free sex toys on November 4th! You can even sign up to be sent a reminder so that you don’t miss out. As Part of  the Sex Toy Day celebrations they are also hosting a Blog Carnival – asking bloggers to write posts addressing the question “How have sex toys changed my life?” So Far Buzz On Vibes & Lizzy Kaelar have already published their posts and I guess this is  the start of my own – How Sex Toys Changed My Life Post… so…..

How have Sex Toys Changed My Life?

My first ever actual sex toy was a jelly like rabbit vibrator with a wired  remote control unit that was a gift from X for I think my 20th birthday. This was in the days before you could readily buy sex toys online – heck It was back when 56k modems were considered super fast! I loved the purple Jelly monster, I grew VERY attached to the clit stimulator, I seriously couldn’t get enough of it.  This meant that eventually I broke it. One of the wires between the base and the ticklers motor snapped off due to my very over zealous use. I very quickly learned how to use a souldering  iron (as I wrote about in Sex Toy Repair 101) After a few years the whole toy eventually died in the bottom of the cupboard, it was a gooey, lint covered, gross blob of jelly, with an incredibly rusted battery case filled with a set of eroded batteries spewing forth their corrosive goodness – EWW.

I had no choice but to dispose of my dear bunny. I did replace it a few  years later with another rabbit vibe which i bought online¹, but it wasn’t something that I used regularly. I barely ever used it alone as the tickler was no where as strong as my original one that had it’s own separate motor, it was mainly something I used with X – having internal stimulation whilst receiving head always sends me over the edge, but I digress.

Fast forward to this year and  my purchase of the We Vibe 2 from AdultToysCorner.com. This one purchase started off a whole shift in the way I saw both sex and sex toys. I went from getting off occasionally to getting off constantly whenever I slept with X and used  We Vibe 2. I swear that thing became my orgasm insurance,  it also started to open doors for me to further explore my sexuality. Not long after ordering my we vibe I started this blog and I haven’t looked back since.

My collection has grown somewhat in the past 6 months and I hope it will continue to do so, as with each new toy I get to explore a different part of my sexuality. I’m discovering many new ways of creating sexual pleasure for myself as well as reinvigorating my partnered sex life too. It’s funny to look back at how much my mindset  has changed since I bought that little piece of purple silicone, it is by far the best purchase I’ve ever made.

I’m now looking towards the future and building up my self esteem and self worth so that I can move on to bigger and better things. Some may question just how sex toys could make such a deep impression on my life and I don’t know if I could answer clearly… I just know that they have changed my life, and they’ve changed it for the better.

Violet xx

1. I have to confess to having never entered a sex shop let alone made a purchase from one [↩]